http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7462985.stm
this woman died in battle early this year
also:
1991 – Flight Lieutenant Jo Salter became the RAF’s first female pilot Flight Lieutenant Jo Salter became the first female fast-jet pilot in 1994. Since then, many female pilots have followed in her footsteps.
this is referenced fromhttp://www.raf.mod.uk/careers/abouttheraf/ourhistory.cfm
so women have dies for tehir country here in england and i expectthey have elsewhere in teh world.
also here is an article thanking women pilots for their contribution
http://www.airforcetimes.com/news/2007/12/airforce_deadly_women_071229w/
EDIT: found out the information for your country 100 servicewomen have dies in iraq and were american women.
'100 female U.S. service members have died in IraqStory Highlights
Latest death of female service member in Iraq blamed on natural causes
Of the 100 dead, 97 were troops, and three were military civilian employees
Sixty-one of the deaths have been classified as hostile
Female suicide bomber kills eight at checkpoint outside Baquba'
this is my source for that
http://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/meast/07/24/iraq.main/index.html