Why are parents more willing to coddle their female children compared to their male children?

Question

For example, in many families around where I live, most men are kicked out of the house at 18 and they either have to go to college and get a job, or join the military. However, for women, most of their families let them to continue to live at home and financially support them until they get married. Why? It doesn't seem exactly "fair" in a world that pushes for "fairness" between genders

Answer 1

This Tom guy (friend of David Goldberg) claims that gov't will extract adrenochrome from truthers under Project Zyphr.



Gov't identified truthers under Project Pogo.



Project Pogo was to gather info on dissidents when they commented/watched videos of Alex Jones / QAnon / Adam Green / etc



Drone with scopolamine will drill a hole in your window; once gassed you will come out to them yourselves. This is done @4 AM during the night (also electricity was turned off for your block / region )



This Tom guy begged people to leave to South America 'cuz of CONTROL GRID...



I think it's better to hide in the woods of Alaska. What do you think?



The remaining people will be chipped when they sign up for food





Saint Vyacheslav Krasheninnikov said that Americans will receive mark of the beast because everything is like on your palm (you can't hide anywhere from the CONTROL GRID)... So, I was told to tell you this so that I won't be punished by God. Sorry, if the warning came out wrong



Police will stop you at checkpoints to see if you're chipped (aka vaccinated)



Chipped will be influenced (by super computers) ..to receive World Passport (grey plastic card with no name on it)... but when they stretch their hands to get it …gov't clerk will press secret button to administer the unforgivable green 666 tattoo by isotope rays..



This Tom guy and saint Vyacheslav Krasheninnikov both said that once you hide: no documents / no electronics / etc. so that nothing holds you back and you won’t go back into the city ‘cuz police will stop to chip you if you decide to go back. You have to live off grid; it’s tough but it’s the only way; burn documents as documents are from satan; no electronics once you hid so that you won’t be tracked (even old broken unplugged 1970 tv set will show the antichrist using tesla’s ether); forgive me.

Answer 2

"Ann" sort of has a point.  Kind of.



Yeah, we are more likely to push men out of the nest than women, but (at least in the US), we are far less motivating to boys than we used to be.



The result is that more girls graduate high school, and far more graduate college.  We allow boys to think that schooling doesn't matter, and say things like "boys will be boys".



A huge part of that has to do with changing how we teach.  It used to be that if you goofed off, you actually received corporal punishment.  None of this "timeout" crap, you got whipped.



Read "Tom Brown's Schooldays".



There have been a number of proposals to bring back teaching boys and girls in different venues, at least partly because you motivate boys and girls differently.  That *IS* sexist - for truly some girls need more consequences to bad behavior and some boys need to live in less terrifying circumstances.



You can consider corporal punishment "inhumane" and can point out the increase in down-stream issues when you do it, but clearly treating all students alike is definitely benefiting kids who find it easier to sit down and study over those who don't.

Answer 3

Men live with their parents for significantly longer periods than women, so obviously there’s something wrong with your theory 

Answer 4

What if women don't get married. How long do you think a female's parents can realistically support their child?



I believe both genders should be trying to do something with their lives. Women can wait, and wait, and wait until men decide to marry them, but what if men don't want to get married. What do you think women would do in this situation?



The parents should die before their child, and this is of old age, or maybe of something else, so if a female's parents think we are going to continue supporting our child until we die then what do you think is going to happen to the female child after her parents die?

Answer 5

Seriously? Those most childish, unable to function as an adult people I've ever met are men. My sil's brother couldn't even write a check because mommy did it for him. Didn't do well in high school because her baby didn't feel like getting up to go. A friend's husband walked out on her during her early stages of pregnancy because he wasn't ready to be a father. Would promise the kid he was coming to visit and wouldn't show up. I could go on and on and on. It's the women in the family who take care of the parents as they get old and the men are busy doing their own thing.

Answer 6

Hmmm, around where I live there are plenty of 20+ year-old men still living with their parents. But one supposes that if you live in a more patriarchal society there's an aspect of keeping young women safe from assault. This is because in some cases these cultures value virginity as a commodity and assume a non virgin woman wouldn't be able to find a marriage partner. I guess these parents also assume that a young man can defend himself. 

Answer 7

Society is gynocentric.  Child rearing is no magical exception.    

Answer 8

Where I live, I know more young guys who still live at home than women; so perhaps that's a local thing rather than a general statistic.