Question:
Why is it that in general woman are meaner and more annoying then men?
anonymous
2010-03-07 15:00:40 UTC
Like it's always the woman who are mean and rude to me. Men are nicer and men don't complain about everything like woman do.
Twenty answers:
Michelle J
2010-03-07 17:23:12 UTC
Women are not trying to get into your pants, so they speak their mind. Wait till you get married, then come and tell us they don't complain. LOL.
Bluebeard's Wife
2010-03-07 15:39:15 UTC
Today I went to a coffee shop, and the guy that was ordering was taking a while trying to pick some pastries for his grandmother. The guy behind him said "It's ok bro take your time". When the guy left he did that "hey you're my bro/mate" handshake/hug with the guy behind him. These men were 2 strangers waiting in line at a coffee shop and they were calling each other bro and shaking each other's hand over pastries for someone's grandmother. I've seen things like this countless times in public, I've yet to see women act the same way. I'm not saying women are bitches or anything, but women are more cold and/or petty towards each other.



I do think that women are more petty, maybe only because we tend to notice things (or think we notice things) that men don't bother to notice. I wouldn't say that women are any meaner or more annoying than men, although women do have a tendency to be mean and vicious to each other. We don't call each other "sis" like men call each other "bro", we are more competitive. I won't say that there are any less pricks than there are bitches. I've met an equal amount of both. Men who are mean and annoying tend to be very mean and annoying.
Kate
2010-03-07 16:50:46 UTC
If pretty much every man is nice to you but women aren't, it is because men want to sleep with you.



Only a woman who has never been one of the guys can think men are nicer overall.



In school, if a girl doesn't like another girl, she says mean things behind her back.

In school, if a boy doesn't like another boy, he beats him up.



Within a healthy friendship, a woman will build her friends up, telling her she is wonderful and deserves the best the world has to offer.

Within a healthy friendship, a man will razz his friends, telling him he is fat, has a crap job and his girlfriend will probably leave him.



If you're out of high school and the majority of women dislike you, the issue is you. Either you are oversensitive, you make bad friend choices or you are not a very nice woman. Men aren't paragons of niceness, but if you're cute, they'll be super nice to you in a way they aren't to their friends.
Kris W
2010-03-08 01:55:46 UTC
Because society reacts differently. If a man was overly rude or annoying in public he would end up in jail while a woman would be cheered on.



It's like with the sting thing they did for domestic violence, everyone wanted to help out when the woman was being abused, but when the woman was doing the abusing guy's turned away and women cheered her on.



Very damning of the average woman I would have to say.
alyssa anxiety
2010-03-07 16:00:13 UTC
Not true really , I am a peaceful person I don't want to inflict anger on others.

Pms doesn't even effect some woman.

I may get cranky when I pms , But that doesn't count.



And men do complain , Oh they can complain , My ex for an example.
anonymous
2010-03-07 15:17:58 UTC
I don't know. I THINK it might be because we are so very emotional AND we are more likely to be encouraged to look for the causes of our discomforts INSIDE ourselves rather than OUTSIDE ourselves.



If a man is unfairly treated in traffic court, he locates the problem with the judge, accepts that he feels angry about it, and moves on. A woman in the same position will wonder if she did something to make the judge treat her unfairly, analyze every scowl on his face, scrutinize what she wore that day and what she said, and end the day by agonizing over what is wrong with her that she is so hurt by an irritable traffic court.



At least I do that and I think it makes me mean and annoying.
YankeeFanatic
2010-03-07 15:36:38 UTC
Men tend to tell you up-front if they do not like something. Women will be subtle, and have a tone of voice, but not DIRECTLY tell you you did something they disagreed with! Women tend to be more cliquey and exclusive. Jealousy is also a common issue. Men aren't all into petty dramatic crap.
Roger
2010-03-07 16:16:35 UTC
Men are easier going and less petty, but this is definitely socialization playing a part in it. Men kill each other more than women.



Girls are socialized to be 'nice' and boys are socialized to connect with anger/aggression and view it as masculinity thats why we kill more. Girls are trained to not be aggressive it's seen as freaky, so their anger is released in psychological ways like verbal abuse, pettiness, bitchyness etc....
Krampus
2010-03-07 15:54:22 UTC
I really think it's who you surround yourself with, catty people of either sex aren't favoured by me so I don't socialize with them. Also, rude and mean people are much louder than the nice.
?
2010-03-07 15:02:32 UTC
Some women can just be really catty, and most men want to get it on.



You will come across many pathetic and rude people of all genders and types in your life, but what matters is to focus on the good ones and to emulate their good behavior and kind deeds.
anonymous
2010-03-08 11:14:20 UTC
Not true. Transexual women and Homosexual men are more annoying than women in general.
fenway2k
2010-03-07 15:06:28 UTC
It has to do with the basic difference between men and women.



Women are touchy-feely, they thrive on emotions and the majority of their decisions and behavior is based on how they feel.



Men are fact based. They tend to be more logical and analytical and rarely use emotions as reason for their behavior.



Not to mention every guy probably wants to get in your pants so of course they will be nice until they get it.



Just being honest.
anonymous
2010-03-07 15:53:02 UTC
once you lose your looks men won't be so nice to you.



look at it this way, to women you are competition, to men you are what they are competing for.
el guanaco.
2010-03-07 15:22:24 UTC
women tend to be more jealous of other people than men.
?
2010-03-07 15:10:59 UTC
Listen to your mother! Men ARE good people!



Yo, B....any chance you had anything to do with illiciting that complaining with your attitude or actions?
anonymous
2010-03-07 15:47:12 UTC
hormones baby



as a woman , u should know this things



PMS
anonymous
2010-03-07 15:07:20 UTC
men just don't allow foolish things to affect them
anonymous
2010-03-07 15:04:53 UTC
men are good people
anonymous
2010-03-07 15:02:03 UTC
Marry one. Then you'll see them complain non-stop.
?
2010-03-07 15:02:05 UTC
PMS.


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