Question:
Why don't men who are successful with women help unsuccessful men to pick up?
2020-02-27 15:15:13 UTC
Most men who get chics are so selfish that they never reveal their secrets to other men who have no clue. All they do is insulting them saying you a re a loser. They are all arrogant thinking they are special because they consistently pick up new chics. I know it's all about tricks and some of just don't know that yet. You lucky bastards learned tricks from someone else.
25 answers:
?
2020-03-01 01:34:28 UTC
If you don't play the lottery than you will never win the lottery.  Lesson is that many guys don't put put themselves out there enough.  Be yourself.  If being a jerk is being yourself, then go for it.  Plenty of women get with jerks all the time!  So remember, you don't even have to be a good guy.  Women like bad guys too.  Just put yourself out there.
ron h
2020-03-01 00:23:37 UTC
What are you using today?  It's not alcohol and it's not marijuana.  What???
gibbsmb
2020-02-28 22:08:05 UTC
To answer your question: A lot of lady killers do try to help their bros.. Bottom line though is that some got it & some don't.
?
2020-02-28 21:27:41 UTC
My husband spent a good amount of time trying to help an acquaintance pick up chicks. Dude would rant about women to his female friends and on dates with, you know, women and just couldn't fathom how nobody wanted to be in a relationship with him. Sometimes you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink because it's mentally ill and completely lacks awareness.



We have a friend who had terrible luck with the ladies so we set him up with a few chicks, explained to them that he's super nice but inexperienced and shy, and that my dude really needs feedback. He got some hard to swallow pills but had the self awareness to learn from them and he's in a long term relationship now.



Successful people do try to help unsuccessful people, but it's a crapshoot whether or not they'll heed your advice or just shove their head up their asses and disregard your help.
Hockey
2020-02-28 17:59:23 UTC
Just quit your whining already.
Phil M
2020-02-28 12:19:38 UTC
"It's all about the attitude, Rat."
2020-02-28 08:01:44 UTC
Idk. I guess we want to believe that human love is different by animal love but we are all exactly the same.



I still think humans have more empathy potential. Maybe just very few are empathetic now but still there are people with that kind of empathy... 



Picking up new chics isn't someone successful. A married man who loves his wife with a stable job and with or without children is successful. 
?
2020-02-27 18:43:04 UTC
Some of them do. It's just that there is a lot of you guys out there and most of you don't want help. 
rustbucket
2020-02-27 17:05:51 UTC
There few things men count as successful among men and women are one of them, the number, looks, coveted, etc.
?
2020-02-27 16:10:54 UTC
If you aren't lucky perhaps it's because of your attitude, your personality and the way you think about women. There's no special formula.
2020-05-24 22:19:27 UTC
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2020-03-02 19:50:13 UTC
There are no tricks to getting a partner. There are tips you can follow but if you 'trick' someone into dating you then it will always end in disaster. I am female, one of my best mates is a guy and he always complains about not getting the girl he wants. He left his last gf that was perfect for him by saying he wanted to play the field and has regretted it ever since and hasn't had a relationship with anyone else since except one night stands with what he deems 'chubbies'.

  When he starts talking to a girl on a first date he instantly tells her he won't change for anyone and to not make him take time out if there is a new playstation game or the football is on. I've tried to tell him repeatedly coming out with stuff like this will lead to no second date. He also consistently goes for girls out of his league and then says they are shallow for not dating him, when in fact he is solely going by looks too.

  If you want to be able to go on a date and have it work out I'd advise you to ask a female friend or family member. Guys who think they are players give the worst advise. We girls have had to deal with it all from being insulted because guys think it will make you try and prove yourself... it doesn't, to being lied to because they think they can impress you... always comes out in the end.

The one tip I can give you is when you try and chat a girl up is to pretend you are talking to a friend, treat them like an actual person, and realise that girls rely on attraction too so if they are just not into you then there is no trick in the book to make them change their mind. And I would add that if you get a negative vibe off a girl, it's better to leave it at that. Rejection hurts for everyone, that doesn't mean you won't be able to find the right person to care about you. It's not easy, as a female I've approached guys first and been rejected, most girls have but most of the approaching is usually down to the guys and I respect the confidence and trust you put out there to do that. My final tip would be to try and date people who have similar interests by going to venues or events. Good luck xx
?
2020-03-02 18:17:22 UTC
If this weren't a known and common thing the term "wingman" wouldn't exist. Your problem is that you just don't have good enough friends.
2020-02-29 18:59:09 UTC
There's this thing called being handsome or being ugly.  The successful guys are usually in the former group.   Im not sure there's a miracle set of 'tricks' that can help with that.  Maybe wearing a paper bag might be considered a trick.
Ralph G
2020-02-29 15:34:17 UTC
Try checking out Youtube. There are many people (men and women) who do videos on this topic.
?
2020-02-29 02:00:31 UTC
Dating successful women may prompt some men to feel insecure about ... to dating, people's attitudes and behavior don't always match up.
ace
2020-02-29 01:06:35 UTC
It's not a trick it's just nature i'm sure you can pay for classes by some Don Juan guy in a seminar somewhere and maybe it could help,plus the web is loaded with with info,but it wont help much! Imagine getting taught how to play basketball by Michael Jordan in a 3 day class with other noobs. You would learn, absorb excel but after that your would be just ok and could maybe play a pick up game so maybe it has merit,but you need talent. The guys who are successful with picking up women are just good looking and tall they also have nice teeth,high testosterone and high pheromones! All they have to do is say hi and smile the women picks up on visual cues then picks up the scent. That's it 80% there from here they just learned how to talk about themselves less and listen more and engage in simple conversation that's the other 15%.



The final five percent is simply asking for numbers and making a date she's into them right off the bat unless she's not single even then she still wants him. Losers lack pheromones,testosterone and looks and are often to short all visual cues. Women are nice by nature and even if your a master at listening and conversation all you will get is a women who is emotionally attracted to you in the best case scenario! You think your winning you get her number and a date is made yes!!! Hold up though it's just a gay friend date that's how females view this their not attracted to you and never will be! If they hint that your attracted and it shifts they will back off and say were just friends ok? From there she will generally never contact you again truth!! Don't blame the guys,yourself or the women it's just science and nature and the guy who are smooth with women do this because chicks like them so by default it's very comfortable to be cocky and funny when someone digs you it's flattering. Imagine a 75 year old lady and comes up to you and starts talking you might engage in conversation and if it were interesting listen, but it would be a challenge right off the bat but who knows a deep kinship could arise,but a love affair never this is how women see Losers it cant change.
Kim
2020-02-28 20:38:35 UTC
Some want to be miserable. Way down the road they are broken and forced out.
2020-02-28 11:57:17 UTC
Some do, are wing men.
2020-02-28 08:52:52 UTC
more rubbish i was exp[elled from school at 15 joined the RAF at 17



Without Any help
2020-02-27 23:46:17 UTC
B/c it is truly a sad *****-dog world out 

there my sad deluded Friend & us Human

Folk are not meant to help each other w/o

pay, yk ??



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2020-02-27 15:59:01 UTC
The successful guys are successful because they have been doing it for some time. They have made the mistakes and learned from them. When they tried something that worked they remembered. They also paid attention to the guys who knew what they were doing. I'll give one of the biggest problems with the unsuccessful guys is they treat women like an object, or a piece of meat. Your first lesson treat a woman lie a human being. Also don't act like you deserve sex simply because you make money, that is another item that send women in the other direction. 
Bob
2020-02-27 15:43:29 UTC
It's not about 'tricks'! Thinking that it is is probably your biggest mistake.



Men who are successful with women are successful because of their personalities.



Men who are successful with women are successful because they make women laugh.



Men who are successful with women are successful because they do not treat women like targets.



Men who are successful with women are successful because they aren't whiny incels.



Work on your personality.

Work on making women laugh.

Work on treating women like normal people.

Work on not being a whiny incel.
2020-02-27 15:24:57 UTC
Kind of agree but not all men are like that. I do help men who are absolute disaster when it comes to pickup. It's harder if the person is extremely introverted or shy. Tricks just don't work without charm.
?
2020-02-27 15:19:13 UTC
To “pick up” women?????? If you want to “pick up” women then that makes you the “trick”.  


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