what is the best way to avoid disapointment when asking a girl out?

Question

what is the best way to avoid disapointment when asking a girl out?

Answer 1

Take a risk, you never know, a little dissapointment wont kill you after all.

Answer 2

The only way to avoid disapointment is by eliminating expectation. I know it's contradictory, but if you go with an open heart knowing that she might as well say know and that you will survive to that, than you don't get disapointed. Now, if you wanna know how to succeed, it's a different story. You should be funny without being goody and be spontaneous too. and start with something simple, like a coffee, during the day. That way she won't feel under pressure and is more likely that she'll accept.

Answer 3

expect 'no' as an answer. This is a concept recommended for everything. If you already expect the worst outcome, it will be no surprise. If she said 'yes' and you expected 'no' wouldn't that be a pleasant surprise? but if she said 'no' then you got the answer you expected. Not to be confused with diffidence, it is merely a tactic or strategy. By the way, if she says 'no', just say "thank God. I didn't want to go out with you anyway. I find you repulsive". LOL.

Answer 4

There are no ways to avoid disappointments in this life. You just do what you have to do, and hope that things work out for the best.

Answer 5

If you ask a girl out and get rejected, don't take it personally. Take it as constructive criticism, something to learn from. There might be something wrong with what you said and how you said it. Then again, there just might be something wrong with her. It goes both ways, so if she doesn't think that you're the right one for her, then obviously she's not the right one for you.

Answer 6

oh boy! If you are scared of getting rejected by asking a girl out, then you really need to grow up first. THEN ask her out. No girl likes a shy kids who is scared of his own shadow. Get some backbone. Ask her out. She says no, ask why. Then improve yourself for the next girl.

Answer 7

Try this: Always expect for the best, but be prepared for the worst! It works like a cushion!

Answer 8

Don´t ask her out untill you are 100% sure that she will say yes....



If you can be 100% sure then you will have NO DISAPPOINTMENT after asking her out...surely this is the best way to go....isn´t it???

Answer 9

Expect rejection.

Answer 10

Come correct ,have a swagger about you and be up front.If that dont work its other bitc,i mean fish in the sea.

Answer 11

Well, there is a chance that she will say no, but what if she says yes. Don't always think about the negatives.

Answer 12

maybe you should look at how you deal with disappointment in other aspects of your life and how you deal with it you'll probably find you can deal with it .

Answer 13

There is none if your a real man/boy.

Answer 14

i think you should just say it straight up and keep it real if she dont like you its her lose