Education--getting a higher education in something that interests her.
Career--finding a profession where she can enjoy herself and be simultaneously successful and hopefully, shatter the glass ceiling (but, if she wants to do the stay-home thing, that's great too--we always need people, not just women, for that as well)
Love--having someone (if she wants that kind of relationship) that will respect her, challenge her intellectually, give her everything she deserves, but expect her to be subservient or dependent
Family--if she wants children, having children, and raising them to be the kind of people that will care about what the do and what the contribute to society, etc; otherwise, having the love and support of her family members and reciprocating those same feelings