Hey, dudes... if you really want more casual sex, shouldn't you work towards these goals of feminism?

Question

It is generally the case that most women don't really want to have casual sex (or at least won't actually do it), but most men do. Some of the reasons for this may be inherent, but there were past societies where women were much more, well, casually promiscuous than they are in our own culture, at least nearly as much so as men, which suggests that... the difference is, at least, not *entirely* innate.

So, guys, if you really want more of a chance to get casual sex, shouldn't you be trying to work towards these goals of feminism (that I will list below) that are likely to increase women's willingness to have casual sex?

The goals:
Better access to quality child care
Better access to birth control and abortion
No greater social stigma towards promiscuous women than towards promiscuous men
Better social support for poor and/or single mothers
Better access to prenatal care, maternity leave, and other supports for pregnant women and new mothers

Any other goals of feminism that you think would increase men's potential sexual partners? Any other thoughts?

Answer 1

Even guys who want relationships generally support the idea that their female partners should earn a fair wage because that helps the household in its entirety. But clearly there's a minority strain in this country that has a major disconnect where birth control is involved. It defies logic to want casual sex but to also be against birth control, abortion and child support. It comes down to some people wanting all the benefits of the sexual revolution with none of the consequences. If you're a guy in Alabama who supports that state's crackdown on reproductive rights you'd better either be celibate or wanting to have a lot of kids to support. To hold any other view makes you a hypocrite.

Answer 2

Uh huh, yeah okay. I'm going to just believe some incel on the internet who lives under 2 rocks.

Answer 3

Question:

Do dudes really want more casual sex?

Most dudes tend to give up on seeking casual sex after a while. Couldn't one assume that casual sex is a coping mechanism for their other needs not being met? In which case wouldn't having more casual sex only encourage them to waste more time before they start getting their lives together?



Now that I've read your description, I'd address some of the things there as well:

"Better access to quality child care"

It's called parents (two of them, one of each gender), the quality depends on how much effort they (both) put into parenting. Feminism does not offer anything for that, in fact it does the opposite by discouraging women from being mothers while encouraging single motherhood for those who do end up with children.



"No greater social stigma towards promiscuous women than towards promiscuous men "

Feminism does not do anything for this either. It often does the opposite when it attacks women whose job requires them to look attractive and not to forget that most of the time when unlikable people say that something is bad, then people just think that this thing is kind of edgy and cool. For example the kids on TikTok are making memes that are shaming promiscuity in women, which means that you've lost the next generation on this issue thanks to how unlikable feminists are.

Just like the religious right lost the previous generation to promiscuity and degeneracy due to those things being seen as edgy and cool thanks to how unlikable the religious right was while they were opposing those things.



"Better social support for poor and/or single mothers "

Absolutely not, single motherhood should not be encouraged or rewarded. In fact the opposite should be done. Being raised by a single mother is close to being the worst thing that could happen to a child. Parents should be rewarded for staying together.



However noticing that most of these are about having children, how exactly do you think these would promote casual sex? Do you think that women would stay barefoot and pregnant sucking any random dick for government welfare?

Answer 4

no, men do not owe you their time or emotional labor and that's actually really objectifying to use women as "sexual bait" to manipulate men



what we need to work on is:

1. Abolish Welfare for single moms

2. Abolish compulsory child support



also, we are well past the point, culturally, that now straight men are "slut shamed" more than any other demographic, and male sexuality is now shamed while female sexuality is celebrated, that's just the reality, this aint the beaver cleaver 50's, lets get real folks... nawadays "sluts" are praised and celebrated while "studs" are shamed and ridiculed