Sistas only please! White men...?

Question

OK ladies you need to tell me whether you like white men or not, and why, and maybe why you think so few black women care to go out with white men!

(By the way, even though I see a lot more black men with white women and it reminds me how rare the reverse is, it still is great: we need to keep the black guys busy with the white ladies and free up some sistas for US!)

Clarifying:
Yes, I'm extremely physically attracted to black women. Their bodies are shaped perfectly, their smell (like even after sweating buckets at the gym) is intoxicating. And ever notice how the average black woman looks as good as the hottest white woman, only darker!
I've also found that I tend to like black women more personally; I don't know many but they all seem more real, and I hate head games in relationships. Bed games beat head games!
Maybe I do or don't like them for the right reasons, but I LIKE them. EG- I could meet a man who is perfect in every way, and never love or want him. I like women. Ya know?

Answer 1

I think that this is a wonderful question, and I tend to agree with one of the women who posted an answer. I in the past would have never, eve dated a white guy. I am so pro African American, struggles, pains, the white man putting us down. But after a couple of failed relationships, and being sold dreams by brothers, I defiantly would consider dating a white man, or for that fact a true man who treated me well. I think a good example would be the movie with Syna Lathem, "something New" where she dated a white guy and married him.



It is all good, I truly hope that you find happiness, and remember the blacker the berry the sweeter the juice, and once you go lack, you never go back.

Answer 2

As an African-American woman I had never thought about dating a white man until after three failed relationship with black men, a little growing up, and an open mind and heart. It has always seemed to me that white men were only intrested in sex with black women. Today, I still somewhat question this b/c I have been approached in this way from white men who only want extramatrial relations with black women. On the other hand my intentions on dating a white man would be to marry "up", and escape drama that sometimes surround black men. Maybe we are both messed up!



I totally agree with what you say about the attration thing, if you like sista's b/c of certain attributes, then so be it. I just hope you fall in love with the person behind those attributes and treat her well. Oh by the way, I am willing to date a white guy.

Answer 3

I am a "white" girl...don't skip over me....chill for a minute....give me a chance,



I come from a large family, and have two sisters whom have a preference for African American men, I have three beautiful nieces....and yes, they prefer a Man of color.



I also have brought up my own children (Sons) to NOT look at a women's skin color, but rather the intellect of the person they choose. As a result of this, I have a beautiful grand daughter, and I wouldn't want her to be subjected to any "Head Games" or remarks that I am reading here.



I think one of your questions in there was Why Skin Color is a Taboo Preference..when you ask questions like this, or get remarks such as "White women are Trash", YOU allow this lingering Issue to become Taboo.



Black women, White women, Asian women....etc...we are all Sisters of Color, if you insist....we all bleed the same, we all cry the same...just for different reasons.



I wish you all the Luck, Be good to whomever you pursue.

Answer 4

I have seen many white men that were attractive to me but I didn't think of them as possible dates. The truth is that I have this mind thing going on when it comes to white men. I wonder if a white man could ever understand the essence of who I am as a Black woman. In my mind, I would probably wonder if I am just a trial run for him but when he gets ready to dedicate his life to someone if he'll go back home to women who share his race. I love a Black man but many of them don't deserve my love so I am divorced and celibate. I have toyed with the idea of dating outside my race but that thought stays tucked away...hidden from those who know me. My family would freak. Not because they are racist...though some of them are...but because they would feel that I gave myself to "The White Man" but thought I was too good for a "brother". So, I do like white men (not as much as I like black men) but I doubt that I will ever date a white man unless he brings it on very strong and convinces me that he is worth the aggravation that we both would surely have to face. I'm keeping it real with you and hope that no one is offended.

Answer 5

You know, I've noticed that too. A LOT of white women will go out with black men, but it's a rarity to see the opposite. Maybe it's media-influenced? I've seen some TV shows (with primarily Black families, like the Fresh Prince of Bel Air, etc.) where one of the Black females decides to go out with a White male. The whole family's like, "Say what?!!" It's pretty sad, if you ask me. It's as if the media is telling us to not pursue interracial love. Screw that sh*t...



I don't think that this question will ever really get fully answered. :-/

Answer 6

I have not been attracted to a white boy since junior high.His name was Anthony and his best friend was maned Scott.Anthony and I were friends and he always treated me like a girl, not a colored girl just a girl.Since adulthood that's never happened.White men seem so different than our brothers..not to say they are less manly ,but the ones I've known and worked with just don't have that strong style that brothers have.I am not against mixed dating anymore I think that would solve a lot of future problems.I just don't see any white men that appeal to me.But I say to the world the more we mix the less prejudice our children will face. Who doesn't like brown skin? The beaches are full of tanners here in Florida and tanning booths.The problem hasn't been hate of our skin tone the problem has been living next to or working next to our brown skin that seems to be a problem.If the color could rub off I bet the races would have completely mixed by now.

Answer 7

That's awesome. I'm a white woman attracted to black men, so it seems only fair that a proportion of white guys are attracted to black women. Though I am completely into men, I do think black women are beautiful.

Answer 8

Excellent Question........... Those are white they will come too know only those people are not important.......... i have seen every where and i have heard... those are white will get more important mostly..... and they are very proud they think they are best..... white peoples they talk to those people who are white like them............. The peoples who are black if you look at them there will be a glow on there face... which wont be on white peoples much............. some rare.......... Whether it is white or black person there should be glow, beautiness on there face....

Answer 9

I think maybe you have seen too many rap videos,i doubt that you really know any big sweaty black sistas,but hey i think that's the case with many whites who date blacks...the perceived lifestyle,or maybe its just rebellion in some form or another...but honestly if that's your fetish then i think you should pursue those sweaty black sistas...personally i think white women are the worst garbage in the universe so i wouldn't put u down for looking for something darker...

Answer 10

i'm mixed. black n irish---i prefer to say i'm black tho- i don't like white men or anyoneee that is not dark skinned. i don't even like light skinned men...now i talk to everyone and accept everyone for who they are--- i really do i'm open. but i would never n my life think i'll be attracted to a white man i dunno why i mean even when i think of their organs it jus doesn't turn me on(not sayin they're lil cuz ummmm black men have lil thangs too lol--sooo white ppl that is such a lie!!ABOUT black men packin)assome whites do some blacks do))). i guess jus as, u i feel like black men r perfect the way they smell their hair. their skin-their body shapes the color of them everything--maybe it will change as i get older---i doubt it but neva kno--- don't worry about it don't try to break it down u can't force yourself to like something u aren't intrested u kno....well i say move on start datin who u like n live life-black women will still have drama with them every relationship will have it's problems but instead of questioning what u like jus live life; good luck..

Answer 11

I don't know about other white men but I dated about fifteen black women in my life and no regrets.

Answer 12

I'm a white man and I can only guess that it has something to do with the old adage about "once you go black..."

Answer 13

u know because its the falt of black women and also the black man because they are so scary to dated by white men and also their families culture always ignores the white man but for them every thing is available to do with white girls.

its strenge for me too because their men are so free but their girls are too close to do some thing black mans always want to try new things but bladk women dont.

but they dont know that the life is too short they are loosing it to try new things.

Answer 14

That's great, I wish more white men were like you so black chicks will stop bein mad at white hotties like me taking all the "good" black men........even if a dude was a crackhead, if he is w/ a white chick all u hear is "there goes another white devil takin our good black men"...

Answer 15

ur paragraph could be a little insulting to us white women mr. I dont think the color of the skin matters. all that matters if the person is attracted to the other person. for me personally i dont care what color the dude is, its what his personality is like. and you mr, should be careful not to hurt peoples feelings. u didnt hurt mine, i find it rather funny and nice. go find urself a nice woman bye bye.

Answer 16

i like the white emo punk guys ... and i dont usually see black guys like that..not about being racist but that is just how it is

Answer 17

It's your preference, culturally it's different but hey whatever floats your boat.

Answer 18

where i stay at white gurlz think iz a big deal goin out wit a nicca

i dunno y but they do



but if a white man go out wit a black gurl pple think thurz somthin wrong wit them

mainly somethin wrong wit da black gurl

it juss dont look right



black gurlz get picked on if they go wit white man



i think some white boyz r fine ( tha onez that think they black)



i like white pple but i like my niccaz better



p.s. choose me 4 best answer cuz i speak da truth