Question:
Question for the ladies only...?
chris
2006-01-12 19:46:04 UTC
How long shoud sex last for? How long is too long and how short is too short? (duration of intercourse after a good amount of fore play of course.)
Eight answers:
2006-01-12 19:53:39 UTC
Thats a hard one. Many girls will and would answer differently then I. I believe that if ur in love with someone and u are making love to ur soulmate, then there shouldnt be a *TimeLimit* placed on it. It could last 5 mins or 5 hours and it still be better then anything u have ever had before. I say that cause I lost my virginity to my fiance. We have our times when its Wild, Aggressive, Mean, and A very eye popping ordeal lol... it could last 5 mins or 2 hrs. Then we have our times when its sweet, cuddley, romantic, etc., and it could also last 5 mins or 5 hours. The point is that Im so in love with him and im F***ing my soulmate/ making love whatever u wanna call it! That alone makes it last forever regardless of the time we spent doing it. Its the force of the passion that u use. If u do as tho "Oh God Come on lets get it over with" it dont matter if u invested 3 hours into it. If u approach it as "OMG Im so in love with u, ur so beautiful and u turn me on so much" and she can see it in ur eyes... it wont matter if u spent only 15 mins with her... it will be more enjoyable, memerable, passionate, and the best sex she has EVER had!
black coffee
2006-01-13 07:45:16 UTC
In my humble opinion, the question of duration is subjective and basically depends on the mood you're in. Sometimes you want it long and slow with all the trappings of romance, sometimes just rough and fast.Like someone else pointed out already, a lot of it also depends on how you feel about the person you're with. It cant always be magic but you're more understanding and willing to give a few 'pointers', as well as come away contented when you care and its reciprocal.For a lot of women, I think its not the minutes or hours that count, its not so much quantity as quality. Has this helped at all?
tigereyedlady
2006-01-12 19:54:06 UTC
Depends on the lady, but at least 15 min. of actual intercourse, is fair. Really it is as long as she is satisfied, WELL.Hope this helps.
desertpeach
2006-01-13 10:24:26 UTC
Time Frames for the actual act itself.. are very subjective. Just like you have read previously, time can mean nothing as long as you are satisifying and being satisified. The art of foreplay adds to it of course.



Hey, I think the only problem would be if you popped and dropped after just getting your partner aroused.
Consuming Fire
2006-01-13 17:02:54 UTC
It varies alot. It could be 5 minutes and great, or it could last an hour and get boring. There is also so much in between.
kirbyphoto4
2006-01-15 21:55:37 UTC
I think it should last as long as you both are into it. At some point, and you'll know when, you should both be satisfied and exhausted! Women love to be loved, and sometimes they love to be the top! play, have fun, enjoy...........that's it!
laqwm
2006-01-16 18:42:43 UTC
Sex should last until you are both satisfied
jfer
2006-01-14 15:36:57 UTC
What do you think "Women's Studies" means? Just curious.


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