Question:
Why do most women dislike sex so much?
1970-01-01 00:00:00 UTC
Why do most women dislike sex so much?
323 answers:
Brunswick
2016-09-27 04:04:26 UTC
I think the problem here is that sex is very different for men and women. For most women, it's a long process, of building up the mood and the pleasure of connection and so on. For most men, it's just getting our rocks off. Love is a huge part of sex for women. For men, we could probably do it with anyone who can get us erect. All this is a generalisation, of course, and men need love as much as women need sex. There are also several other reasons (including the social expectations and upbringing that has been discussed in previous posts) why it's different for men and women. But I think the fundamental difference is the biological difference in the way we get aroused and experience sex. It's not that women don't feel the arousal we do, it's just that to them it's less important than the love we give them. Conversely, it's not that men don't need to be loved, it's just that men don't appreciate how important love is to women. We love them, and we think we show this in our behavior, and really, they don't get it at all. To many women, the way we act is like we take them for granted. I don't think they're right and we're wrong or vice versa. We see things differently and we need to at least take the time to try and see it from the other perspective.
(๏̯͡๏)
2016-09-26 06:37:23 UTC
Because there are few "good lovers", if you want to be successful at getting some, you better master the art of love making so that the woman you want to be with wants more and you don't have to beg for it everytime. We women are a lot more complex than men when it comes to sex, if you're an adult and still haven't realize that, you're in trouble. We also need a conection or something more than just animal sex to get us into it. I think that if men where the ones risking getting pregnant, they would then be more hesitant to do it with just anybody.
Cosmos Jones
2016-09-28 11:41:10 UTC
Some men are pretty horrible at sex and this is from someone who has not had a lot of experience although I am old as dirt.

Some men cannot figure out the formula is not jackhammer , turn over sleep.

Before tattooing become popular , I actually imagined having directions printed on my chest. One. do this . Two do this. Now , do this . It takes a total of fifteen minutes . This side up was the first one.

I know some women really like it upside down but I like looking at people in the face so I can see their expressions. Get a blow up doll if you don't want to look at my face. There are exceptions to everything but some people are really just the worst and cannot learn. I had women from my church talk about giving directions. Men don't take directions. They won't even use a GPS if it is on their phone.

And on a more serious note, some women were sexually abused by an older sibling, parent or raped. It is an epidemic. These women need help. I cannot imagine turning my husband down for sex. That is beyond my understanding and I come from a long line of women who like sex . My father and mother got together when they were sixteen and he told me privately she had never refused sex. She told me the same and we laughed together because of our similarities. It may be genetic. It may be attitudes within families. I don't want sex with a lot of people. Just one for life and all the time. Thank you for asking.
?
2016-09-26 22:12:54 UTC
If you honestly believe that women "dislike" sex and any woman should just spread her legs at the first beacon call of a guy, then you have some severe problems and it sounds like you're on the verge of rape already, if this is real.



Women love sex too, maybe not with YOU if you're treating them this way, but I think it's just less common to find a woman who has dehumanized sex the way that some men like you do. Men aren't just human sex toys for us to use, and I don't think there's a woman on the planet who wants to be treated that way by a guy. Plus, the woman has a lot more responsibility. Women (in general, not all) are more emotional creatures, and function on a more emotional level. Women (in general) get the most out of sex when they feel connected on deeper levels than just physical.



Also, maybe the fact that some dudes (and I think a lot fewer than we/you give credit for BTW) would fling themselves at anything that breathes is a massive turn off and red flag. Nice, normal, kind guys who treat their women like women and not blow-up dolls get plenty.
2016-09-27 09:20:28 UTC
Women do love sex. As a women, I can attest to this. I love sex. But I will say there is a lot more at stake for me than there is for a man. I could easily be physically overpowered, abused, or knocked up. I never had sex with any man that I didn't trust.



The primary reason I might say no, even to a man I trust, is if he's being too agressive. I dont like being forced into sex. It's an act that should pleasure both parties. I don't like when a man forces himself on me with no foreplay, makes no effort to get me off, and then just leaves me brush burned and uncomfortable. Women don't get arroused or come to orgasm as quickly as men. I love sex with a man who respects that and is willing to make the experience enjoyable for me too. I don't want to have sex with a man who is only thinking of his own pleasure.



Make it clear you care about the woman's feelings and she's much more likely to respond to your advances.
?
2016-09-26 19:59:41 UTC
Women love sex just as much as men.



The reason why women are the one's having to be the adult in the situation and make sure that what they are doing is a reasonable decision is because women are the bigger stakeholder's in the situation. As a guy, you can just have a one-night stand, and then flee the next morning, with her not being able to track you down or anything if she ends up being pregnant. For women, however, if your pregnant, then the baby is literally inside of you- no running away or just shrugging it off.



I've said it once, and I'll say it again: women love sex. It's just that it's unappealing to women when all men seem to want is sex (not every man, of course). Most women want men who have common sense, someone who doesn't put sex as #1 on their to-do list. Maybe if you stopped acting like if you don't have sex you will die, then maybe some woman out there would want to have sex with you.
2016-09-26 18:04:00 UTC
Love how the men who probably haven't had any other than their left hand are proclaiming it to be "infedility, narcissism, and control" these are the kind of guys that prowl reddit and complain about women on a daily basis. Listen, I'm a girl, so I'd know, some men are just so used to their own pace and tempo that they aren't attuned to a women's needs. Also some guys can be unattractive during the dirty it's a turn off. Sex is just more of a need than a want for some guys. Not all men, only the ones who complain. It's also due to them not having vaginas and not knowing how to properly maneuver a clitoris. Unfortunately, there are more unexperienced eager guys who just wanna get their ***** wet than those who know what theyre doing.
Harry
2016-09-25 22:48:05 UTC
Most women dislike sex for many reasons:



They have sexual hangups/guilt from upbringing/experiences

They don't understand their own bodies

A lot of men are selfish in bed and don't care if women enjoy themselves or ***

They don't want to be considered sluts

They are more likely to catch an STD from a man than vice versa

They have to worry about getting knocked up

They don't have that much testosterone
Jack
2016-09-25 22:31:44 UTC
You have not seen my girlfriend then..



But in all seriousness, it is not that they dislike it but it can come down to a lot of things. Not being confident in their "skills" or looks is 1 of the possibilities. Also they seek for a more emotional connection during sex, whils some men (also some woman) just do it for someone's body or for the pleasure.



But just do not assume that if a woman doesn't want to have sex, they are immediately associated with "not liking it". They are not forced to have sex with us 24/7 whenever we like just because we are horny a lot.
?
2016-09-27 11:01:48 UTC
I hate the use of the word MOST in the question and in some of the answers. You make generalized statements about women without scientific evidence, which takes away the credibility of your question and the responses, too. I not "MOST" women. I am a woman who uses her own brain to make decisions about my sexuality and am not influenced in the least by the unscientific propaganda on the Internet. Don't let the Internet hold you hostage. Be the boss of you. And I will agree with what other posters have said, and that is that just because we don't want to have sex with you right away doesn't mean we dislike sex. We want a relationship and an emotional connection..
sazzad
2016-09-28 05:33:49 UTC
The other thing is that you are so much bigger and stronger than us, we realistically have to think that you could be violent, a serial killer or want to torture us, you might laugh at that but if you really think about it realistically those things happen. They happen when women are least expecting it they can happen any time. So a woman may be desperate to get laid but she can't risk her physical safety and possibly her life.

This is the real reason why women want relationships so much. So they can have sex in physical safety and know they won't be beaten, maimed or killed, NOT because they don't love sex.



In addition women are taught that if they admit to liking sex they are going to get rejected, humiliated and slandered as sl...uts. So we also have to pretend we don't want sex and hold men off for several dates in order not to have people call us nasty names and treat us like dirt even when we might possibly love to have sex on that first date we can't. Plus you will reject us if we have sex with you on the first date and we'll never get to have sex with you again cause you'll decide we are cheap. Which actually sucks. How nice to just have a first date and have sex and then have another nice date and have sex. But no that won't happen you'll never calll us again if we don't play this STUPID game.



So the best thing YOU can do if you like a girl and she likes you- is don't freak out when she says she doesn't want sex on the first, second and third date and get all paranoid that she doesn't like sex and you're never gonna get sex because that's is very unlikely to be the case. Be sweet, let her know you find her sexy, but don't push her or get all paranoid until the fourth or fifth date. If she's been holding off she will probably happily give it up by the fourth or fifth date if you've been a relative gentleman with a sexy edge. Then the two of you can have sex regularly if you want and have a fun time. Isn't that better than flipping out about women not wanting sex when they won't boink you on the first date
?
2016-10-02 05:53:53 UTC
This is a massive generalisation:



Women love sex, but for us a lot of the pleasure comes from the connection we have with our partner. This connection usually takes time to achieve, so for us a one night stand with someone we don't know is not satisfying.



The other thing is sex is not all about the penis, just because the man has an erection does not mean the woman is turned on or ready, and sex without sufficent arousal is actually uncomfortable and at times painful. This might be why you have been turned down for quickies.



I can not speak for every woman so why not ask your partner these questions. If you are not in a place in your relationship with your partner where you can have a frank and open discussion, then you should work on this area. Its all about the connection I mentioned earlier.
Wizard Fro profile is open
2016-09-25 20:22:16 UTC
There's a drug that lets you forget specific things. Seems that when you remember something, it causes a chemical reaction in your brain. So you take this drug and remember those things and then the drug prevents the 'undo switch' for that chemical reaction. That 'undo switch' is how you get to remember a thing TWICE. Well, if we can do that, it's only a matter of time before we men get to take a pill that makes us gay. I have a feeling that this will become a hugely popular pill. I know I'd run out and buy some. Think about it. As a dude, you want sex a LOT. Well, if you looked at other dudes and your brain said "Oh yeah!" then you'd be wanting sex from other people who want sex just as much as you do! Win win if you ask me.
fewnotmuch
2016-09-27 03:54:11 UTC
You seem to have come across certain types of people to the point where you think everyone is alike and you ask this question based on a blanket statements about gender, so you must have lived a limited life among a lot of the most negative kinds of individuals there can be.

You are not very educated to be frank.

As far as your question: because of practicality women have to be more careful than men at least in stereotypical situations in which they meet guys to get intimate since the man can be a predator seeking vulnerable females.

As far as "sex" being (as you seem to think) something that everyone should be into, there are people who don't revolve their entire lives around it and some people live without it and are happy and have no anxieties about pleasing the mentality of someone such as yourself.

Go find a good school to go to and learn.

Also, stay away from sex and sexual encounters. You are only going to get yourself and others in trouble tinkering with something you know nothing about.
Ursus Particularies
2016-09-28 05:52:10 UTC
Some women like sex with multiple disparate partners. They are not looking for one faithful partner in life. In a worst case scenario with up to several partners per week they are called nymphomaniacs, and I have seen this type in many places, not numerous as a group though. Quite separate from prostitution and not associated with any particular economic or social class. Neither is it illegal albeit touching on preferences of people more generally.



It is very surprising to discover this when it does not suit one's own preferences. I do not know how their lives sort out, but promiscuity has possible adverse consequences from the medical viewpoint.



I do not think women dislike sex generally but many people do not like what they consider improper sex, not just women.



Many medical people would say there is such a thing as healthy sex and that most humans are not thoughtful on that subject.



True partners likely have a far more satisfactory relationship in all aspects, including sexually.
?
2016-09-26 12:13:49 UTC
That 'undo switch' is how you get to remember a thing TWICE. Well, if we can do that, it's only a matter of time before we men get to take a pill that makes us gay. I have a feeling that this will become a hugely popular pill. I know I'd run out and buy some. Think about it. As a dude, you want sex a LOT. Well, if you looked at other dudes and your brain said "Oh yeah!" If you believe it's not then you need to be put in your place. women are not as highly sexed as men in general either.
2016-09-27 08:47:49 UTC
I hate the use of the word MOST in the question and in some of the answers. You make generalized statements about women without scientific evidence, which takes away the credibility of your question and the responses, too. I not "MOST" women. I am a woman who uses her own brain to make decisions about my sexuality and am not influenced in the least by the unscientific propaganda on the Internet. Don't let the Internet hold you hostage. Be the boss of you. And I will agree with what other posters have said, and that is that just because we don't want to have sex with you right away doesn't mean we dislike sex. We want a relationship and an emotional connection.
GEORGIO
2016-09-28 21:37:20 UTC
I personally don't think that is all true. Maybe the guy they were or are with isn't considerate of their feelings and needs. The guy probably just rushes everything and falls asleep. No foreplay, no kissing, no romance and affection will probably make any woman not like sex. I think having a selfish partner who isn't a giver in general would not make any person regardless of gender; not desire sex. I believe when a woman has a man who is all about her happiness, her needs both in the bedroom and outside the bedroom; would make her more comfortable and desire sex and romance more.



Not saying im a expert on this. But women want to be desired and a guy who is eager to make them happy. As a guy who hasn't has sex yet; I'll admit it scares me sometimes. Not because of me getting anything but making sure the woman enjoys sex. I don't wanna be left alone for not making her happy. I think that should be every guys goal.
Shanaya Dhar
2016-09-27 08:45:08 UTC
This is absolutely not true. Women like men want it, need it and have it as much men do. The point that's often missed though, is that for women the urge is more wholesome and intimate (not that we mind anything casual), but purely on the context of this question, it is the intimacy and the involvement in the act that's the key difference. It is a big part of the relationship and is often and extension of feelings. So while we are open to random encounters and interesting stands, the deepest desire is in knowing it is part of something larger and more meaningful. But that doesn't mean we hate sex, we just love ourselves a bit more.
?
2016-09-27 08:25:45 UTC
Look at the bigger picture though. Women are taught that if they spread their legs too much then they'll be called a degrading name such as "whore, skank, slut, loose, etc." It's in nearly every type of media. While if men do this, they might be called a "manwhore" but no one will really even care...they're buddies might even congratulate them...while the women's friends might stop contact because they don't want to be friends with someone that might "steal their boyfriends".

But then if a woman doesn't take up every offer for a quickie or sex, she's dubbed a prude and it must mean she doesn't like sex. Which isn't true. It can mean she has boundaries set, maybe she doesn't do quickies with strangers because she doesn't feel like being called a degrading name. Or maybe she's that one "you take home to momma" instead of screwing in an alley way.

Our views on things have been swayed by the media way too much. Everyone has their own choices and personalities. It's their body.
Arifur Rahman
2016-09-30 01:57:55 UTC
Of course it's really puzzling for a man to discover that a woman hates sex. After all, men think that sex is a pleasant act and assume that all women think the same.



The first problem that leads to misunderstanding between men and women is that they both think that they are alike. The truth is that the male brain isn't like the female brain as there are many things that both males and females perceive differently.



When it comes to males little psychological factors can affect their sexual desire. Yes psychological factors still affect the sexual desire of most people but for females their circuits can be overridden much easier by those factors.



In other words the unconscious goals a woman has might affect her ability to enjoy sex, make sex unpleasant or even make it painful.



For men things are pretty direct. Most men will be able to enjoy sex without worrying about anything but sex itself. For women many things at the back of their minds can have a direct impact on their sexual desire.
Danni
2016-09-27 18:38:11 UTC
They often feel like they're being used. For one, they're forced to lay back while a man inserts them or does what he pleases to an area they've been told to keep guarded all their life. Women have always been more emotional then men have, deny it if you'd like but science shows. To a lot of women, sex is a sacred thing. To a lot of men, sex is a sport. Also, men enjoy it more than women. Men have orgasms more frequently/strongly than women. 70% of the time, women fake orgasms. It's more physically challenging too. Women need a full 24 hours to recover after a session when men need no more than two minutes. So what it boils down to is; they're emotional, taught to be protected, sex exhausted, used, princesses who read romance novels and don't understand why they're not treated as such... opinionated.
Maybach
2016-09-28 19:22:39 UTC
Your statement is invalid. Most women love sex just as much as men. It's plain and simple that if a woman isn't attracted to a man, she won't have sex with him. Unless she's desperate for money. So a woman will not just have sex with a random offer of sex from a guy as more men would if offered by a random woman who is decent enough to do it with. A guy is more likely to say hell yeah to a woman who he finds half way attractive if she just walk up to him and offer him sex. Not every guy will, but a lot will say yes. Now try that with a random woman. Go to her and after sex you're most likely to be turned down or have the cops called on you and if you're black, they're most likely to gun you down so you don't want that.
?
2016-09-27 07:14:56 UTC
Sex is all about communication. Firstly in terms of a relationship, prior to committing it is advisable to examine each other's views as sexual incompatibility can end in one or both partners being very unhappy. Even if you both decide to wait for marriage before having sex a discussion will help. Secondly, there is nothing wrong with the occasional quickie in a good relationship as an interval between long and pleasurable love making. Thirdly, A one night stand is fine provided contraception is used and both parties are equally horny.

If you get turned down then accept it and move on, there are many extremely horny women out there, and provided they are approached in the right way both of you could be in for an enjoyable encounter. However if all you are looking for is a quick release then your left or right hand is your best friend, as if a woman feels that she is being used for your pleasure with no regard for her's, she is unlikely to want you. If you are in the position of getting aroused and then told no, as you rightly say all you can do is stop as requested.
2016-09-27 01:53:20 UTC
I can't speak for any other women, but sex is (generally) a good thing.



But here is a few things.



1) A lot of women don't want to be treated like a piece of meat or a hole.

2) Many women want something more than "Wham bam thank you M'am (now p--s off)" attitude of many horny men, not necessarily a relationship but SOMETHING.

3) There was just something on my feed. Men take (on average) like 2minutes. Women take 20+ of foreplay to get to orgasm

4a) Women tend to "think" more. (Or feel more). Hence a "quickie" isn't such an easy thing usually. Some women are worried about whether the man will think they're fat or likes them etc.

4b) There is certainly a % who have responsibilities. And certainly "feel" it more than men. This isn't hard and fast, but a generalisation. For example, my parents divorced. My father had no problems hooking up. If the house wasn’t tidy he’d talk her into going to her place or a hotel. My Mum wouldn’t bring a man into the house if it was untidy.

5) There are some safety / social things. I've had the odd man who is just creepy – like serial killer creepy. No way in heck am I going anyway with them!

6) Not so much of an issue these days with the pill and condoms but women do need to think about this sort of stuff more than men (because they are the ones who have to deal with the consequences in far more detail than men...

7) There are the "old" social constraints. Sometimes it applies, other times not so much. In many circles a man who sleeps around is a "legend" but a woman who sleeps around is a "w----re" or "sl-t" or "loose".



Not all of these applies and these are generalisations. But it is around...
dude
2016-09-29 18:59:12 UTC
Women don't dislike sex. It's just that they experience it differently than men do. Men have a penis on the outside that gets in the way of everything, it's always on their minds. Women have that inserted into them. They must be protective of that. Their sex organs are basically on the inside. So if you can understand this difference and why, you can become very attractive to women.
Kaitlyn
2016-09-26 14:42:57 UTC
I don't know if I'd say most women..there are reasons certain women don't want sex such as- being gay, having some sort of guilt or bad memory towards a sexual experience, not being attracted to you, etc. If it came from my biased point of view, men and women want sex equally. Men just have lower standards that they'd go to for it.

I'm a woman and I want sex way more often than my male fiance.
eastcider
2016-09-28 13:11:36 UTC
Why do men want sex all the time from just about anyone?

Obviously, that s the sort of question a woman would ask. The original question here is something a man would ask.

Here s the thing. Women don t hate sex. Women like sex with the right person in the right time and place. Why?

That s their nature, just as non-stop libido is a man s nature.
Rain
2016-09-28 06:54:50 UTC
I can't answer for every woman, because I think it depends on the individual and each individual has their reasons why. For myself, most of the time I'm too exhausted and stressed to care about having sex. It ends up at the bottom of the totem pole on my "to-do list". I hate that I feel that way, but I have a full time job, a total of 3 hours a day commute, a 5 year old to take care of, a house to clean, a husband and child to cook for, and the list goes on.... Now, if I was a stay at home mom or something and had free time to keep up with my house chores, shopping etc. vs coming home exhausted to a nasty house to clean, I'd probably be "in the mood more often".



For me, it's hard to get in the mood when I look around and see dirty dishes everywhere and piles of dirty clothes covering the floor. It's a definite mood killer for me. When I'm waking up every day at 5am, not getting home until 6pm and running in circles for the couple of hours I have at home each night... sex just isn't on my mind after all that. But, I'm also pregnant... So obviously me and my husband are doing something, but it's usually only about once a week.
Starfish
2016-09-28 15:15:56 UTC
I think most women love sex ( I do! ) ~ the problem, generally speaking, I think is that men look at sex from a completely different angle than women do. Men get horny, and once the honeymoon of the relationship, if there is one, is over, their main goal is to keep an even keel and keep the short guy happy. But women are different. Women get horny too. Without having read all the other comments above, my personal feelings about why women tend to resist sex in a relationship is,



1) they (we) need to feel they are in safe surroundings. It is intimidating to allow oneself to become so vulnerable to such an overpowering partner. We need to not only feel physically safe, but also emotionally safe. Some people don't understand what that means. Emotional safety is in regards to how a woman is treated. Being the physically weaker sex, when hurtful or potentially threatening words are spoken, it can strike greater fear, anger, or what-have-you, than a man might be intending.



2) I have experienced in my relationships with men, the tendency to treat women like one of "the guys". Which, depending on an individual's personality, (whether male or female) may need some tweaking in regards to how a woman is treated. Men often think women are "crazy" and "unpredictable". That is mainly because woman's brain circuitry is different than a man's. I think besides being emotionally driven, it is also deemed that way because of a lack of consideration (awareness) that the average man is larger and stronger enough that if some kind of confrontation should occur that the woman wants to get away, he could prevent her from doing that if he wanted to.



3) One of my X-husband's complaints was, that I seemed to always want to talk about "things" before we had sex. That was because those "things" had not been discussed, especially when there had been ample time to discuss them; which often happened with "us". When that happens, a man needs to be aware that the reason for that brings us back to emotional/physical safety. When I did that it was because I couldn't let down my natural guard to that degree of vulnerability until I had a chance to work through some "things". We couldn't even find the time to talk about that nor did we even have the ability to make the connection between the need for conversation and keeping together to the ability to be intimate with each other. That is why it is important in a relationship to take some time to talk and give us a chance to do that before it's time to get down and boogie. Ok, I just gave my age away there.



4) Another reason is because men often settle into a routine of sex and forgetting that the woman has emotional needs and desires during sex too. Men are more physically driven so by the time a relationship is developing, they just want to get the job done on a regular basis.



******But making each other happy is what works best. It takes team work and regard for each other's needs and desires. That applies to the moment you meet until the moment the relationship dies for whatever reason.******
Lani
2016-09-28 18:42:50 UTC
Because the vagina does not have the same nerves as the penis.

The place that the penis gets it's pleasure from when entering a women is not the place women get their pleasure from.

The clitoris (the place women experience pleasure from) is located away from where the penis is going while having sex.

So I think many women turn down sex because it's not that much in it for them.

Sex is more like a sacrifice for a women, unless the guy is willing to take the time away from his pleasure and work on the clitoris. If he is not willing, then she won't really feel much when having sex, especially with a stranger.
Seth
2016-09-27 15:37:33 UTC
"I hate the use of the word MOIST in the question and in some of the answers. You make generalized statements about women without scientific evidence, which takes away the credibility of your question and the responses, too. I'm not "MOIST" woman. I am a woman who uses her own brain to make decisions about my sexuality and am not influenced in the least by the unscientific propaganda on the Internet. Don't let the Internet hold you hostage. Be the boss of you. And I will agree with what other posters have said, and that is that just because we don't want to have sex with you right away doesn't mean we dislike sex. We want a relationship and an emotional connection."- Elanor Roosevelt
2016-09-27 21:52:20 UTC
It's not that women dislike sex, it's that men are biologically programmed for sex much more than women! Men think about shex after every couple of seconds!
?
2016-09-29 04:39:53 UTC
Its only the American women. They only use it as a tool to get what they want. I recently went to south east Asia where all the young Europeans go on vacation and boy let me tell you they have way more class then the American girls and also love to have sex. Actually the South American woman, the South African Women, the Kiwi Women etc are all way better then the American women.



Its just that most American guys don't travel so they don't know. My friend go travel and your eyes wil lbe opened. I am an American guy but I will never ever EVER marry a American women. Have a great day.
ChaCha
2016-09-27 15:14:22 UTC
Many men do not know how to do sex well. They don't know how to pleasure a woman. But don't ever try telling a man this! ALL men think they are the BEST in bed and yadda yadda. BS. If you can climax a woman youre half way home. If you haven't pi$$ed her off by spending too much, by leaving messes for her to clean up, and by generally treating her like a f'ing slave, then you'll get sex more often. Huge part of the problem is men treat us like slaves. Treat us like princesses, make us FEEL like princesses, and life will be good for you. Otherwise, you're sunk like junk.
?
2016-09-27 03:08:28 UTC
To me what you are saying just sounds like TV's interpretation of how men and women interact sexually. I do not see this in real life. I don't know any men that go around "begging" for sex. I've never had any problem finding women that were just as interested in sex as I was, and many times they are more interested in it. So either you're a virgin that gets his ideas about sexual interaction from TV shows, or all the guys you know are total losers.
2016-09-26 16:38:30 UTC
A lot of women don't have sex drive at all. When a woman wants sex it's either to manipulate a man or reward him when did what she wanted. When a lot man i denied sex from women there ways to control high sex drive as a guy knowing a women won't let you in her woha or hymen highway. Porn and prostitutes. Look up TRUE FORCE LONELY TYPE OF GUY. Sad story when as beta guy you get rejected then women return when your 30 with a high paying job or accumulated resources and expect you give them access via sex. Well never going happen when I have money for prostitutes, Porn and hotties in there 20 chase me because I have money. But what I discovered in my social researcher online.
monikast
2016-09-28 11:54:26 UTC
I was asking my self this question for a long time. Im a girl. I liked it, but I never loved it, I never had an orgasm during sex. I had 4 sexual partners. I liked having sex with every one of them because I thought they love me if they want to have sex with me. But then, with my last ex I just couldn't do it anymore. I didn't love this guy and i realised that when it was too late, everytime he touched me I panicked, we didnt have sex for a year, and I was 23 at the time. Then I realised having sex is so much more than just sex. I realised I wasnt happy with that man, I didnt love him, he never attracted me...And then we broke up.

Now I'm with a man who I really love, he respects me for who I am and he shows me that. He helps me get through thing and he is always there for me, and this is what Im like to him. Sex with him is so amazing I could do it 10 times a day...well, that already happened a few times. And it feels so good, I have an orgasm almost every time, and even if there isn't one it is still so good that I dont mind not having it.. So i dont know....every man and every woman on this planet are different, you can not say every women dont like sex for the same reason, every woman is different and you have to get to know her and make her feel beautiful and sexy and loved. Show her that you also want to please her and do it with passion ;)
Milly
2016-09-28 19:06:48 UTC
ha ha ... what a funny question. I never quite thought about it the way you present it. First and foremost, you must remember that from an evolutionary standpoint, a woman's biology is such she cannot just mate with anyone but mate with the man who will be the best father for her child. Being the best father means passing on the best genes and one who will be the best provider. Men are perhaps "horny" more often than women because again, from an evolutionary point of view, they are designed to spread their seed far and wide.



There are lots of other reasons as well. Post-menopausal women sometimes find the spirit is willing but the flesh is not. Also, you don't many men are just not that appealing -- they don't know how to present themselves (e.g., groom themselves, dress themselves, etc.) to their best advantage: They want to think it doesn't matter, but it does. (Why would a woman want to "get together" with a man who is careless in his habits when she's conscientious in hers -- which is what makes the man attracted to her in the first place?)
?
2016-09-28 18:02:10 UTC
As a woman myself I can say that I don't dislike sex at all. In fact I love it. What I don't like is random men pushing for it to happen, or maybe I just think more logically than deciding to sleep with anything with a pulse.
Shaun
2016-09-27 05:46:02 UTC
Because sex was made by God for the purpose of multiplication!...Any other use of sex goes against it's designed purpose and we all know this on the inside. Those who abuse sex as a means to get pleasure only end up becoming numb or they end up with diseases... The majority of people literally worship sex today. It's is one of our biggest idols. It's everywhere in our society and woman especially are sexualizd and pressured by men for sex. While the men are pressured to become homosexuals. If we were to do things God way then woman or men would not feel pressured to perform.
Common Sense
2016-09-27 18:44:09 UTC
I think there is truth to what you have to say, to a certain extent and not for every single woman.



You see, men are wired to be horny and desire sex. It is a natural instinct and a way to ensure that the human race continues it's lineage.



On the other hand, men are also somewhat ignorant when it comes on how to get more sex. Women are not sex objects on demand, like the satellite movies you order on demand to watch on television. Woman need a lot of love and attention and until men figure that out, they will be wanting more sex than they may ever actually have. Remember romancing the woman when you met her? Treat her like that, always and you may surprise yourself with the response you get in return.



Women love sex but quite honestly, the majority of men have no idea how to actually please a woman.

They just don't. As a result, some women just don't want to bother with sex because they would rather have no sex than bad sex. Face it, men can ejaculate quickly, whereas women take more time to climax. The average sexual encounter is 7 minutes. Not enough time for women to enjoy an orgasm.



Most men are not gentlemen enough to allow their female bed partners to climax before they do. It is a known fact. So, no wonder why women will just pass on the sexual activity. Intercourse alone does not often cause a female to orgasm and the penis size has nothing to do with it either.
Summer
2016-09-27 03:56:46 UTC
Why do you think about this? What's wrong with somebody not wanting to have sex? Maybe women don't have sex a lot because apparently a girl who's done it too many times is considered a slut
Chris
2016-09-26 10:39:58 UTC
Women love sex, it all depends on trust and random attraction. You should of met my exes. They wanted sex everyday all the time, so much sex, i got pooped out from having it to the point where sex became overrated. That is what happens when your in a relationship and sex becomes an everyday issue. Sex really should be done literary twice a week and not 49 times a week like they want, you save money on condoms and your not so worn out to stupidity. I had so much sex i became dumbfound and this went on for 3 months strait because they wanted it every damn day! You see, i run off a different frequency than other men and women like that. I don't just sleep with a woman and kick her out the next day. I offer her breakfast, lunch, dinner, keep up with my chores, go to cheap fast food restaurants, bars with her, go dancing with her, i am strait foward with her, and i strait up don't lie to her and tell her like it is as well as i like to exeriment in bed to please her, and i am concerned
Squooshbugle
2016-09-30 13:58:18 UTC
Here's an idea: Despite your gender, you do not know how everyone in the world feels about sex.

Every single individuals experience of sex is their own, informed by culture, upbringing, exposure, experimentation, self knowledge and circumstance.

Leave the sulking and whinging for you diary.

Maybe you are frustrated that you aren't getting what you want, so here is a clue:

Generally speaking, sex is a shared experience.

Stop making it all about YOUR needs.
shivani
2016-09-28 17:48:48 UTC
In addition women are taught that if they admit to liking sex they are going to get rejected, humiliated and slandered as sl...uts. So we also have to pretend we don't want sex and hold men off for several dates in order not to have people call us nasty names and treat us like dirt even when we might possibly love to have sex on that first date we can't. Plus you will reject us if we have sex with you on the first date and we'll never get to have sex with you again cause you'll decide we are cheap. Which actually sucks. Then the two of you can have sex regularly.
RealAsiansDateAsians
2016-09-28 10:34:55 UTC
Women love sex just as much as men. But people have worked so hard since the beginning of time to tell us that sexual woman are immoral that women want to avoid slut shaming. Sad but true. Womens sexuality has always been scrutinized. And always will be. Some become repressed, others are ridiculed
?
2016-09-26 17:30:20 UTC
I've never known a woman to dislike having sex with a man who's physically fit, strong and healthy, and who shows her he wants her outside of the bedroom (as well as during sex). If men worked out and cared more about their bodies, they'd probably see a change in their partner's interest in sex.



And begging has to be one of the biggest turn-offs. Right up there with body odour and lack of personal grooming.
?
2016-09-26 19:24:42 UTC
Women actually love sex a lot. It's seems like they don't want sex but they just don't want sex from "weak" beta males. I feel the same way about women, I don't want a weak beta female. I think the problem is that men don't care about themselves so they go and have sex with the lowest form of girls instead of going for someone worth while, I mean plenty of "girls" and women alike refuse to have sex with men who don't have a job, a car, a house, or muscles but women don't need requirements for sex with men. If they were denied sex from men on a great scale girl's and women's true colors would come out
?
2016-09-28 10:55:27 UTC
There are so many women that love sex just as much as men or even more. However, the reason being that it seems like SOME women don't like it as much is due to their hormones. Sometimes not having enough testosterone can lower libido for women. Also, for men if they have high estrogen and low testosterone they're likely to have less libido as well
Jim
2016-09-27 05:52:59 UTC
After years of research I have finally found a parallel explanation to MEN on how WOMEN view sex. Ready, --- WOMEN view sex much like MEN view getting a haircut. It's as simple as that. I understand women may not agree with this, but that conclusion is mostly based on how the two sexes view a haircut.

So women quiz your man on how he feels about a haircut. Leading up to the haircut, the process of the haircut, and the feeling after. I bet you women will recognize the answers.
?
2016-09-26 19:25:19 UTC
Many women have discovered they just don't like it. We are taught, quite inappropriately, that everyone is supposed to enjoy and crave it. That is simply a falsehood. Many will list so called reasons why women don't care for sex and for some people those reasons may be valid.... But for most women they have just found they don't like the experience and there is nothing abnormal about them. Men need to specifically inquire during the early stages of dating just how much sexual activity they desire. Not all men are horny toads either! It's not a woman's responsibility to fulfill a man's needs. It's up to him to actively search for a partner that can provide what he needs... Same goes for people who have little or no interest in it. So instead of asking why women don't want sex....you should stop blaming women who don't want it for your frustration because they aren't to blame! There are plenty of women who do enjoy it frequently...I'm not one...but they do exist!
wheat_thin636
2016-09-26 12:36:03 UTC
There is a thing called hypergamy in the USA, in which women are usually looking for the next better-providing man. One of a woman's primary tools, regardless of how career-driven she is and how resourceful she is, is between her legs. I am a woman...I've seen this play out over and over with young women and old women who have gone through a divorce or two.



Sex, and blowjobs, are sometimes used to extract resources from the men they're with. And they might not be sleeping with their husbands because it's no longer working to further extract resources from him, and many times she will already be using her tool to extract from the next man.



And sometimes it's due to hangups, societal pressures to hang onto your sexual value. She might not be sleeping with you, but for the right man, she would.



Then there are women who really like sex. I know a few of those. I know many more asexual women than asexual men. My asexual friends see no place or need for sex in a relationship, but may grudgingly participate in order to hang onto a partner they love. There many reasons, but some are more prevalent than others.
?
2016-09-26 16:17:41 UTC
LOL for pretty much exactly the same reasons you've typed in your question!!



[[Men beg for sex while some women scoff at the proposition for a "quickie"]]

- In my opinion, begging for sex (regardless if you're a man or a woman) is a TURN-OFF period!...I certainly wouldn't be sleeping with a man who's begging to get laid, lol ugh..no thanks...o and women don't like "quickies" because usually we can't 'get our rocks off' nowhere near as fast as the horny p r i c k that wants the "quickie" does, seriously so yeah, why would we bother?



[["When some certain men get eager for sex, the wonen say, "no, no, stop it!, at which time the man is forced to stop it or else get charged with a crime"]]

- BOO HOO wtf?!?!..."at which time the man is FORCED to stop it or else get charged with a crime" <<


Go to a Brothel aka Prostitute Parlor aka Whore House aka s l u t hut :) if you want some chick to hollar for a dollar



[[Women only like sex sometimes, while many men will take sex any time of day. Why do some women avoid sex?]]

- Thats B U L L S H I T women will do it any time of the day if they are sexually attracted to you, so you should probably find a girl who actually like you lol - and lastly, women will avoid having sex for the most obvious reasons - THEY'RE JUST NOT INTERESTED LOL wow! - look just go find chick that is attracted to ya, or if you can't hmmm...f u c k a shampoo bottle or something :p:p:p
Interested Neighbor
2016-09-29 10:35:23 UTC
A lot of men are not creative and just plain boring. How would you feel doing the same routine over and over again. Try different things, entice women, romance her. And it also depends on the person's age, some people don't like doing the same boring thing day after day. Alternate maybe every other day or twice a week.
?
2016-09-27 08:50:28 UTC
Really you try to figure out why women dont want sex? Because most men just to pop it quick and to h e ll with her.



Also if you just lay there girls like a bump on the log you aint enticing men or exciting them to plaesure you also.



It's a two way street in bed learn about each others buttons.
Jen
2016-09-29 14:28:50 UTC
Hi there, I'm a woman and I am asexual...which means I could care less about sex. This doesn't mean that I can't enjoy it when it happens, it means sex is just nowhere near the top of my priority list.



Sex doesn't make the world go round and should not be what a relationship is based off of.
josie
2016-09-25 19:05:36 UTC
It's not that women don't like sex, but a lot of women think of sex more as a much deeper way (pun heh) of being closer to someone. Some just get annoyed that guys only want sex for their body and just the act of sex. Also, guys are just a lot hornier in general honestly. Girls get horny too, but they may just not want a quickie here and a quickie there.
?
2016-09-28 05:58:31 UTC
You are hilarious. I love men...always. I am a believer. I am very pretty and never get dates. Not a cry for help but it is concerning and a bit sad. So much so i was delirious and stumbled conveniently to a very bad situation. Seriously like bruises kinda thing. Not anyone helped not even law enforcement...for whatever the case. Very purty pretty...much prettier and beautiful heart...I never married and no babies Kids. Would be a awesome obstetrics physician....amazingly i am born on labor day....and have and aunt named bertha. Seriously. I would drown in luv...rite. With the perfect guy. A Jewish lady told me not to date black guys..because i seriously deserve better. Date white guys. White guys are very romantic and resourceful and black guys are full of venom and angry. They are the reason i was falsely arrested for a dui when i don't get drunk and am a devout Christian. I'm in Philly. I luv men.

Anyway my email is guestt.sa.sa@gmail. Be good
Dejavu305
2016-09-28 13:06:27 UTC
I would say in general, the sex drive fizzles after being in a long term relationship.



But if you're referring to women just being like that in general all the time, then I would disagree. I think many American women are a little more uptight than women from other countries (like south america) because here we are taught to hide our assets rather than embrace them (vs Univision or European TV).



Maybe you need to try a different avenue to meet more kinky women if you keep meeting uptight women. Good luck!
Alex
2016-09-27 14:29:20 UTC
Women don't avoid sex. Are you alright? I used to think something similar to this when my ex girlfriend was a total ***** about it. I've met this girl and we're so into it. This is a difficult one, perhaps try talking to someone, a friend perhaps about this, I don't think you're gonna get far on here. Best of luck, if you feel anything like I did, I hope you can make sense of it soon.
ironman
2016-09-26 21:57:50 UTC
There is too much stress on female chastity as compared to men's. Women are generally more selective in sex and won't mate with many men. a man on the other hand is not bothered about his chastity and will bed any woman any time.
Brianca
2016-09-28 11:34:22 UTC
This answer is simple so many men have ruined the reputations of other men in their quests to bed women. this can be quite dangerous so it's merely a protection mechanism women have developed. And a quickey may sound good to you but that's the point women are tired of being used for that. Quickeys mean nothing to us. We can become like abused animals that are unfortunately for guys highly intelligent therefore able to avoid the sexual abuse being suffered
2016-09-26 09:38:44 UTC
A combo of several factors Biology , testosterone is THE libido driver , men produce way more than a woman , add to that risk of pregnancy , women will by nature alone have a tiny fraction of the male libido. The female brain is much less sex sexually wired than the male brain too.



Social conditioning / engineering. Women are taught that sex is dirty , disgusting & wrong add to that too , women in the West are fed anti male propaganda , more emotional female brains are more influenced by this " media " & feminist bombardment , no wonder they view men as beneath them. Women , by nature , far prefer the company of their own gender.



In summary , no wonder most women want celibate lives !!!
?
2016-09-28 15:22:02 UTC
If she's been holding off she will probably happily give it up by the fourth or fifth date if you've been a relative gentleman with a sexy edge. Then the two of you can have sex regularly if you want and have a fun time. Nice, normal, kind guys who treat their women like women and not blow-up dolls get plenty.
ReneeGade
2016-09-27 06:12:22 UTC
Most Women? Really? I don't. But if you admit to liking sex in our society, you are branded a hussy, nympho, loose, and diseased.

We get double messages our whole life. Nice girls don't. Look at those hooters. Bea lady, be a slut in bed.

It causes a lot of problems.

It doesn't help that if you ever allow a man in your pants, that is where he wants to stay 24/7. NO more dates, no more movies, more gifts, just being sure he gets his orgasm. If men only had sex to satisfy a woman, no one would be having orgasms much.

So yeah, men are selfish asc-wipes who want what they want and then mistreat the person who gives it to them.
Lauren
2016-09-27 03:38:03 UTC
Actually I personally love sex. But not from a guys who only want sex and nothing else. You literally mean nothing to them. Just a hole to stick your dick. Plus sex gets better the more you have with one person. I don't get havjng sex with randoms every time? Just to brag to your mates? Gotta be pretty shitty sex 99.9% of the time. If a guy wanted to take me on a few dates and actually liked me as a human being i would have sex with them. Being treated this way has given me 0 self esteem
2016-09-28 09:04:39 UTC
this has to be the most sexist question i've seen on here... i bet you're just a dude who keeps getting turned down, which is why you're making generalized statements about women. just because you can't get any, you're blaming it on the women. it has been proven that men and women actually have the same sex drive, but women have to keep it more hidden because otherwise we'll be called sluts for having the same amount of sex as a man.

most men who proposition a woman for sex (who are just random dudes on the street, etc) are rude and sexist, and may even follow us for BLOCKS before we can get to somewhere to get away from them.



you're not just talking about asking for sex, you're talking about 'women won't give me what i want and they should because i'm a man', which is bullshit
?
2016-09-28 18:54:06 UTC
One Quick Scientific Answer:



It is -Biologically- harder in general for women to have loads of causal sex with multiple partners and biologically far easier for men to want to have as much sex as they can with as many woman as they can.



Oxytocin is a chemical that gets released in Women during 1. childbirth, 2. breastfeeding, and 3. sexual intercourse. It is also also nicknamed the "hug hormone, cuddle chemical, moral molecule, and the bliss hormone" due to its effects on behavior. So any time a woman has sex with a man especially with orgasm, a biological chemical reaction happens within her that instantly bonds her emotionally to the person she is enjoying having sex with, making it much harder for her to have casual sex and then just walk away (of course this is just a generalization).



MEN on the other hand, get a huge jolt of testosterone during sexual intercourse, which suppresses oxytocin, and that's nature's way of saying, 'Leave the nest and go sire offspring somewhere else.'



Kind of a f*cked up combination! lol. Of course its all for the purpose of self-preservation of the human species and all, but Terrible for relationships in the modern day world.
righteousjohnson
2016-09-28 21:38:30 UTC
Women don't dislike sex. They just dislike sex with you.
dill
2016-09-28 13:22:34 UTC
It's not that women dislike sex it's the fact that guys sleep around and get high fives while women get called a slut and a whore so most people don't wanna be slut shamed
?
2016-09-26 18:08:16 UTC
If men were the ones who risked getting pregnant and being stuck pregnant and parenting, they'd shy off it too.

If men were sluts instead of heroes every time the had sex, they'd shy off it too.

It's not that women don't like sex, it's that women understand the responsibility of what having sex means.
boston
2016-09-28 07:43:05 UTC
Evolution: when our ancestors were evolving men could and would have as much sex as possible to pass on their genes. Once sex was over they didn't have to worry about it anymore... women on the other hand had to carry a pregnancy for 9 months and it wasn't too uncommon to die during childbirth... these two situations favoured men who had as much sex as possible but favoured women who were selective in their mates.
?
2016-09-28 21:53:17 UTC
they don't they just have more of a tolerance than men they are controlled more by love it just a evolution fact if female were like men in the bedroom this world would have been overpopulated years ago there would be no reason for men to chase women this world would not survive woman have been made to be coy i woman sees sex with a partner that is not a relationship prospect as pointless where as men will brag like i shaged that fat ***** there is a lot of difference
?
2016-09-28 09:59:39 UTC
Lol what kind of generalisation is that for men?? I never 'beg' for sex . And also the bit you said about men could have sex anytime . Wrong! I will not have sex if I'm not feeling horny . No matter how pretty or seductive the girl in question is .
2016-09-25 21:09:45 UTC
Women do like sex, but unfortunately, many women can't orgasm from intercourse and get little out of it. Men just want to wham bam thank you ma'am and go on about their business. Women are not as highly sexed as men in general either.
2016-11-16 03:00:07 UTC
of course it's really puzzling for a man to discover that a woman hates sugar... after all, men think that sugar is a pleasant act and assume that all women think the same...



the first problem that leads to misunderstanding between men and women is that they both think that they are alike... the truth is that the male brain isn't like the female brain as there are numerous things that both males and females perceive differently...



when it comes to males little psychological factors can affect their sugarual desire... yeah psychological factors still affect the sugarual desire of most people but for females their circuits can be overridden much easier by those factors...



in other words the unconscious goals a woman has might affect her ability to enjoy sugar, make sugar unpleasant or even make it painful...



for men things are pretty direct... most men shall be able to enjoy sugar without worrying about anything but sugar itself... for women numerous things at the back of their minds can have a direct impact on their sugarual desire...
sj1219999
2016-09-28 12:58:51 UTC
They don't dislike sex😂 actually they want sex, some more than men do, it is just, typically, guys finish before girls so they never end up orgasiming. That is why most would rather fly solo.
?
2016-10-01 23:37:01 UTC
Not all men are into sex, well Some men will respect us women and will, have sex with us, if we want something serious or if we are together or married, it's like a respect, but yeah, I literally get mad when they asked me for sex and money, they don't respect 😠
Rose
2016-09-27 09:39:52 UTC
Women don't dislike sex. They're just more secretive about it
Rosti rumas
2016-09-29 07:09:39 UTC
If you honestly believe that women "dislike" sex and any woman should just spread her legs at the first beacon call of a guy, then you have some severe problems and it sounds like you're on the verge of rape already, if this is real.
?
2016-09-28 00:30:56 UTC
Normally women find their ideal man without you knowing and it's rarely the other way round you should be serious about. sex is not just for pleasure there are naturally responsibilities associated with it like reproduction marriage in laws family community etc sex is part of life it's not other way round or you eat to live not live to eat.
2016-09-27 06:19:20 UTC
When women admit to liking sex, or behave in way that indicates towards their hearty lust for the opposite gender, they are branded as loose,sl*ts, easy, cheap which dwindles their chances of having someone marry them and have kids with them. Most women want the prospect of a family too much to jeaopardize it over instant gratification sex. The same society which would judge women harshly for having sex (with reference to to the no of her partners/the kind of relationship that led to it/time/place/no of dates etc) will encourage men to have sex in any way they can possibly get it. This is why men want sex so much, not really because they are biologically programmed that way and all that jazz, but because of male peer pressure and the way society sees sex.



Nature wants us to procreate. Naturally, it makes sense to have both sexes equally as horny in order to achieve this purpose.....rather than having one sex horny as baboons and the other only susceptible to desire once in a blue moon, which is what so many people have you believe. That would kind of defeat the purpose.
2016-09-26 16:14:28 UTC
Same old complaint from a typical man. Have you even considered making it about "us" and not about you? As you may already know this we have to also go to work and some women work and go to school then come home to take care of the kids, do all of the housework, cook dinner and pay the bills while you men work come home make a mess and ***** about not having sex 7 times a week, you will then sit on your *** and watch T.V. or porn, you do not bother helping us out with the kids or help lift a finger on cooking or cleaning so yes we have enough on our plates to worry about if our husband gets his jollies of or not, especially when you men stopped trying to pleased us in bed. I can guarantee you, If you men made sex about us make us crave having sex with you and not about you as you are already done before it even started we would want to have sex with you men because it wouldn't be just another thing to mark of list of things to do. Think about before you go rambling on why woman do not like sex and make your next post why woman do not like sex is because me are lame in bed and they make sex about them. Good day!!!
?
2016-09-27 19:52:17 UTC
Some women dont like to just have sex like men with random people and like one of the previous comments mentioned there is more at stake like being pregnant and also there are so many std's out there that its kinda scary
Ryan
2016-09-28 18:10:30 UTC
Most women love sex.
Aria
2016-09-26 19:44:20 UTC
1) many women require emotional connection and trust to get off.

2) many guys are shitty at sex because they only know how to get themselves off, and they are men so it is easier and forget mind, body and spirit should all be stimulated and that a clitoris is a thing.

3) many women have histories of men making them feel bad for not "being in the mood" all the time but if you can play her mind and body right she can get aroused no problem lol.

4) Pregnancy risks

5) women are programmed by nature to pick the most worthy male to father her offspring. Women have less kids in her life than a male, and a male's job is to impregnate as many females as possible. That is why guys can nail many girls regardless of looks while girls care about looks somewhat more than guys do because its how species survive haha.
2016-09-27 06:27:56 UTC
I'm going to say because men and society in general, particularly the media, are so disproportionately obsessed with it. Also societal standards, personal religious beliefs, self respect. Men could stand to be a little more like women in that way.
2016-09-30 14:46:43 UTC
A lot of men are really BAD at it. Don't know what to do or how to turn a woman on.

If in a serious relationship talk about it-maybe-I guess. Kinda kills the romance. But if you're attracted it's the only thing to do if it Su.ks.

Girls love guys who are manly yet know how to F...!
Cybele
2016-09-26 22:15:54 UTC
You answered your question. Women don't dislike sex. They only want sex when they're ready.
2016-09-27 12:52:16 UTC
Yes, there are some nice women who doesn t want sex with anyone. They respect their body and have their standards. But, why are you asking this? There are more hoes than real woman. Plenty of "women" who live just to be used for sex. They have no soul, no self respect; theyre just sex toys, not even human. You want every woman to be one of them? Nobody needs them, except some loser idiots like you
dirk o
2016-09-26 15:32:41 UTC
Thats a simple question to answer. Those women are the ones using there man for an altierior motive. There not realy in love. There in want and need. And if you ever have children. The father is usualy someone else.
Kira
2016-09-29 04:24:08 UTC
women aren't supposed to talk about liking sex- that makes us sluts. we aren't supposed to turn it down- then we are teases or prudes. most women dislike the thought of being a man's pleasure object just for sex, we want to be made love to not just 'have a quickie'. most women need time to 'warm up' in order to be pleased
luis
2016-09-28 20:38:47 UTC
Women like sex all the time

They just don't want it from some random guy
Sparkle
2016-09-26 16:31:30 UTC
Men don't turn them on properly and have rough sex with them. Sex can feel like you're being punched or torn from the inside of the guy doesn't care about you.
2016-09-25 19:05:53 UTC
That's called rape, so don't make it sound like the women are doing anything wrong, because guess what, that is a crime and if you believe it's not then you need to be put in your place. And it's not just women who are raped, men are too. You're obviously very messed up if you just see women as toys.
Melissa
2016-09-27 13:17:24 UTC
Personally, I used to hate sex because it was boring. But then I met my current partner and can't go a day without it!



Maybe some men aren't as good as they think they are...
Rhonda
2016-09-26 22:38:26 UTC
Women like sex just as much as men do
ksnake10
2016-09-27 11:45:39 UTC
It isn't a "dislike" of sex so much as it that women don't think about sex or want sex as often as men would like them to. "Every" single mother I meet is currently NOT receiving child support from the man they had a child with. For this reason alone, I think that most women should want sex LESS than most men do. Mother Nature in her infinite wisdom designed "most" females to want sex less often than men do because a mother generally has more "parental investment" in her children than a father does. Because you're a "male" you have to focus on being the kind of man that a woman wants to settle down with, otherwise "most women" (who are not sluts) will not want to have sex with you or be in a relationship with you. You have to be willing, able, and ready to accommodate the hardwiring of the heterosexual female mind to fulfill its evolutionary needs, or be prepared to spend your life "paying for sex" with loose, easy women. Most hyper-sexual women did not survive the Stone Age, and the majority of the few who did produced female descendants that "struggled" as a result of multi-generational unplanned pregnancies, illegitimate children, and life-long poverty. A woman who puts out easily for "you", will put out easily for other men too.
Stacy
2016-10-01 00:11:10 UTC
From my personal experience you need a spiritual and mental connection with a person before I even loosen up down there. So is not that I hate sex as a woman there are just some stipulations that are needed
Zigg
2016-09-26 08:01:25 UTC
I don't think they dislike sex they have more to lose then men do. I think they talk about it just as much as men do.
aidni
2016-09-26 14:13:35 UTC
Women do like sex. We just don't like to sleep around like men do. It's called having morals. No woman wants to be called a whore.
I care
2016-09-25 22:16:21 UTC
Women like to be romantic and appreciated........not sex objects.....we give in so many ways to someone we love........sex is not something just for one person.........it takes two people caring and loving each other truthfully to have and enjoy a wonderful sex life.....preferably married.....

Clue in women do like sex but given with love not forced or expected......it is a gift from GOD.
2016-09-26 22:48:29 UTC
females do not generally dislike sex. they only dislike sex with males, and will try to avoid it unless there's some clear financial or material gain in it for them. however most females do desire and enjoy sex with other females. no female will ever reject an offer of sex from another female.
Zanzibar
2016-09-28 15:39:05 UTC
women like sex. men just like it way more. since it typically (at least in the context of this question) involves both male and female and is dynamically based on desire it is easy to think women dont enjoy it. compared to men in GENERAL they might as well not. but individual preference is all that matters. some women out there wants it 10x as bad as you....you just probably dont want any of that.
2016-09-27 14:50:57 UTC
Quickie is not sex, it's basically rape abuse where only male gets statisfaction or positive experience. What is there to like in sex for a female? It's often both unpleasant or painfull, then women are shamed for sex, females are also left with all the consequences of sex that male wants, womens sexuality is heavily repressed by many socities. Women are slut shamed, being sexually active automatically makes them targets of sexual violence or rape in male dominated societies as well as western wolrd. Women are objectified, called ***-dumpsters, porn and rape culture portray women as objects to stick penis in, while preparation for sexual act done by female porn actors is not even shown. It takes years of sexual activity for normal female to psychologically have quickie without it being highely traumatic to mental health. The fact that males view quickie as sex is already sick enough. Majority of young males have no idea how to have sex without turning it into sexual abuse.
?
2016-09-27 19:34:18 UTC
Women only love sex with love, and forplays are very needed. They can only enjoy when men love them and care about thier feelings. While many men just think of their own when having sex. That's why!
mike
2016-09-28 19:26:04 UTC
Because not all women like sex
Hua
2016-09-28 00:00:12 UTC
I disagree . First gals like sex as much as guys do. They just don't talk about it doesn't mean they don't like it. Maybe for guys we can bang any gals as 123 as long they are look good. But gals might need some love emotions/connection. But overall my ex or currently gf just love sex as much I do.
sweiland75
2016-09-27 12:44:06 UTC
They don't dislike sex. They just dislike sex with you.
BaDdKiTty
2016-10-02 12:05:09 UTC
When the sex stops, the relationship will stop. Sex is important. Now why women don't like it... Could be from disappointment. It's better when both will have the same ending. =^..^=
?
2016-09-28 02:37:18 UTC
Women are interested in sex but they never explore their ideas and feeling because of the surrounding people and fear in them.according to survey most of the women are interested in sex comparing to men they have 70% more feelings.
Chis
2016-09-27 08:08:01 UTC
B/c woman are more mature than men. They are more emotional than men. Sex has a bigger impact on women. They can get pregnant and it can stall their career. Men can just have a one-night stand and move on. They are more interested in the communication part of the relationship which is where the real intimacy lies.
2016-09-28 17:03:05 UTC
Keeping it simple, during sex it may be hard to communicate because you don t want to hurt the other s feelings, especially when they have to keep it up (and you ve gotta keep the mojo going in your own brain). Also, a woman needs lots of (cerebral) stimulation (besides trying to wax her clit off and impregnate her with your finger). Light circles, caress more parts of the body (ears, neck, inner thighs). Ladies, speak up and men, don t race to the finish line-it s a slow-ember journey to an even more explosive finish for both parties.



PS Communicate!
N/A
2016-09-28 05:31:43 UTC
its a moral issue guys praise each other for having seduced a woman .women name call each other for being easy. personality changes in the way women dress speak are clues as to how self aware they are to men suggesting having sex. women are smarter some pick and choose for a future with a good man not all.women are not toys.
?
2016-09-27 13:00:53 UTC
If women don't like sex just take it from them like Bill Clinton does.
kate
2016-09-28 22:12:11 UTC
as a women I love sex but id only do it with someone I love very much. Ive been asked several times from guys and declined it. to me sex isn't pleasurable without someone you love.
2016-09-28 20:25:30 UTC
Idk and idc sex is a sin as i see it, it leads to the sin lust and lust is one of the seven deadly sins so even tho im only 14 and a male i'm never going to have sex nor have children sure i'll die lonely for fliping shakes I'm just cursed oh n i defiantly want to kill myself because im american and America is the country that sins the most sooooo yea now can some one hand me i knife so i can kill myself?????? sure i'll go to hell but beats living a life of sin n i know that i'll never find love sooo yea totaly not depression just so much self h8
Groove doctor
2016-09-26 06:59:21 UTC
Women have the monopoly on sexual access. They are wealthy 'sellers' in a seller's market. As you mention, men are desperate buyers. You don't actually know that women don't want sex, but you do know that they don't 'give it up easily'. They may secretly want it but are first prioritising the protection of their market value.
2017
2016-09-26 08:12:19 UTC
Actually many women, like prostitutes, Cougars, crave sex more than men. after all sex, is all about and for the pleasuring the woman. men that have problems with women is that women need warming up. go slow. lots of foreplay. . enjoy fore-playing her. with teasing her body.you know she is ready when she is soaking wet
?
2016-09-27 13:50:58 UTC
Some women may be asexual and not know it while some women just have a low sex drive even if she loves her partner
Tarzan
2016-09-26 06:24:03 UTC
Because they don't wanna get pregnant. Becauuse giving birth is painful. BEcause she has to take birth-control.

Because sex is painful for some women. Because she can get STD's
Steven
2016-09-26 22:58:48 UTC
Because most men are not paricularly good at it. It's more than just Insert a into B, thrash around a bit, make sperm deposit, and snore. I would imagine women hate that
2016-09-26 05:24:43 UTC
What are you talking about? Most men are picky about women. You mean to tell me you are that desperate for sex, you'd be willing to do it with a butch dyke?





Didn't think so.
?
2016-09-26 17:26:39 UTC
Men are only so horny because of testosterone. Women have estrogen to fuel their sex drive rather than testosterone, which doesn't make one super horny. As a male, I feel women have a normal sex drive whereas us men are just super horny sex-addicts.
tom7railway
2016-09-28 08:45:32 UTC
What you really seem to be saying is - "Women won't have sex with me !"

Try ASKING women how they feel. Try considering THEIR needs and desires.

That would be a start.
hussain
2016-09-28 12:15:35 UTC
I really do not care. I don't show random women interest anymore and i don't show that i have a heart to women that i do not know. I feel like it shows weakness.



That is just my perspective though.
burnss1
2016-09-27 08:26:22 UTC
For most women, sex is sacred and an act of love. So they do get horny, but they probably want to wait and do it as an act of love, so it means something more.
Janet
2016-09-29 21:44:39 UTC
PLS EXCUSE ALL CAPS....*VISUAL PROBLEM NOW!! LOL



ANSWER...I AM ALMOST 75!! I DO NOT KNOW ABOUT most women! I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED SEX!! MY PARTNERS HAVE ALWAYS TREATED ME WELL.....BECAUSE I HAVE ALWAYS HAD A DECENT LEVEL OF (SELF RESPECT! ) I HAVE LIMITS OF WHAT IS ACCEPTABLE....I TREAT MEN VERY WELL WITH RESPECT TOO. Some women are abused because they allow it!!! (imho) And then they complain about being mistreated. I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT A F$$#G

BULLY HERE!! THEY SHOULD SERVE HARD TIME...(IMHO)!! Sex should be fun and FEEL GOOD....NOT be frightening and HURT!
Jerry
2016-09-28 11:30:43 UTC
Women are having sex with men who don't know how to deliver the meat.
?
2016-09-27 07:03:55 UTC
Well, women wants to get to know the guy first. Men are ready to have sex right away.
Mindy
2016-09-26 19:19:10 UTC
Most women are emotional. It is more important to feel loved, then have sex without love.
Johnny
2016-09-28 11:40:37 UTC
So would you just **** any random woman who came up to you and asked to ****? Even if she wasnt attractive? Also, even tho we have birth control and stuff, women biologically are designed in a way to not just **** any random dude who wont stick around because theyve got to have the kid if they get pregnant! I know there's plenty of sluts out there, but they are still a minority. Just get a hooker if youre that desperado playa ;)
Laura L
2016-09-29 08:00:58 UTC
I think there's a big denial and lie, that most women who have HAD Vaginal BIRTH are pretending that it doesn't HURT to have sex after they have ripped apart their body and have permanent DAMAGE from this!
2016-09-25 19:09:59 UTC
Because men are just not that great. Yes women like penetration and men provide that but that doesn't mean he's good. Half of them can't last longer than 5 minutes and don't care to get into foreplay.

It's really not our fault for men's many shortcomings. Not even mentioning that men created this good girl/slut dichotomy to control female sexuality
Blueberry
2016-09-26 19:17:38 UTC
Because they'd rather have sex with other women
?
2016-09-28 13:43:23 UTC
Can't really say I blame women, being even being a man. How'd you like it if some hairy gorilla nearly twice your size was on top of you?
?
2016-09-27 10:33:20 UTC
This question is very offensive and you're totally generalizing a whole gender. This is utter nonsense.



"When some certain men get eager for sex, the women say, "no, no, stop it!, at which time the man is forced to stop it or else get charged with a crime" - WTF?!



Something has to be wrong with you! I can't even answer this ridiculous question.
Someone1976
2016-09-28 01:40:41 UTC
I think women these days just seek friendship from men but I'm not saying it is true with all women. I just feel most seek friendship so I feel your pain.
Steven C
2016-09-27 14:49:20 UTC
This question is wide of the mark, some do, some don't. and liking or disliking something depends on previous experiences.
?
2016-09-26 07:05:15 UTC
Biologically speaking, it is an evolutionary pressure for men to impregnate as many females as possible to perpetuate the gene pool; while it behooves the female to be fussy as to whose baby she will carry for nine months of aggravation plus a painful birth. The amorous male ensures the likelihood of babies being born, and that is all biology cares about.
super girl
2016-09-28 17:41:57 UTC
You're finding the wrong women lol some have drive as high or higher then most men.
?
2016-09-28 04:19:40 UTC
That's false
MisterPortal
2016-09-26 16:09:53 UTC
Most women who don't want sex because they are either deadbeats, lesbians, or ugly old slags who and/or prefer to shop all day and gossip.
Sondos
2016-09-27 07:53:21 UTC
because sex leads to having babies which some women dont want to have at the early age. i honestly feel sex should be done if both persons really want eachother and are serious about eachother.
LMatt88
2016-09-27 00:17:50 UTC
Evolution. The woman chooses one, get pregnant and take care of the baby. Men go with many, cause men can t get pregnant. It s why we have sex, so humans survive over time, we do these things without noticing.
RestiveRedhead
2016-09-25 19:37:31 UTC
It's not that women dislike sex, if we didn't like it none of us would be here to discuss the point. It's just we have to be convinced that it is in our best interest to indulge. With guys they're literally "up for it" 24/7.
?
2016-09-29 11:17:41 UTC
If I'm not feeling sick I will be more than happy to do it with my boyfriend of 8 years who is the only man I've ever been with.
?
2016-09-28 19:23:55 UTC
Personally, sometimes it hurts and doesn't feel good at all. Or maybe we have cramps. Or a belly ache and we don't want a big object shoved into us. Sometimes we just don't want your sweat on us. Sometimes we just want to be left alone.
M2
2016-09-28 13:38:56 UTC
Women LOVE sex--we just don't like it with YOU.
XD
2016-09-26 09:44:42 UTC
i dont know what you are talking about in my experience most women love sex....my wife love sex.. our girlfriend loves sex.. all of our other female partners love sex.

we all have sex at LEAST once a day.. ive only met one woman in my life that did not enjoy sex in any way.. pretty rare
?
2016-09-25 22:02:01 UTC
Women need to be aroused properly, one minute won't do it. Its hard for some women to have orgasms - the partner, mood, atmosphere, place, all have to be the right conditions for women to have enjoyable sex.
Shark
2016-09-27 15:57:19 UTC
Some do some don't
?
2016-09-28 05:46:18 UTC
Mommy
2016-09-26 18:05:13 UTC
Because Most men dont care about a females feelings



Me i am the Perfect Gentleman the Lady always comes first
jolene
2016-09-27 14:36:12 UTC
I'm a women and I love sex... maybe u not doing something right lmao
2016-09-25 19:06:55 UTC
I only have sex with top tier hot women with good personalities from all around the world. Except for Africa. By all around the world I actually meant just Europe, and Northern America and occasionally Australia.
samantha
2016-09-26 16:22:14 UTC
I'm a girl and my boyfriend don't ever wanna have sex ughhhhh and I want it 😭😭😭 all I want is to have a hard cock in my pussy😝💦💦🍆
?
2016-09-27 09:54:56 UTC
Djdjrid
Carlos
2016-09-27 02:37:31 UTC
Depends of how you treat her during sex and her personality she could love having sex in nice
2016-09-28 07:41:41 UTC
women Just like a different type of sex than the male version of it
2016-09-27 07:47:05 UTC
Its not the sex they don't like, its how some players treat women that they don't like.
Tomo
2016-09-26 19:22:06 UTC
A wise man once said, "if you can't please your lover, another person can". It's not that they don't like sex, its just some people suck at starting their engine. Do you best bro and stop complaining about **** that's not even true.
Michael M
2016-09-29 04:59:12 UTC
You need to go out with women over 40, they want it very badly. Like all night long.
?
2016-09-25 19:40:41 UTC
Women do like sex with decent caring lovers who are not selfish and make sure she enjoys it too. Good lovers are rare though - don't expect women to like sex with men who ONLY care about the sex and see them as objects and who are selfish sexist and crass and nasty in bed. Selfish lovers make for women who are not interested - because they don't get any enjoyment - it's as simple as that. I bet most of the women you are complaining about did not enjoy sex with you - that is about YOU - not them.
2016-09-26 19:08:37 UTC
Most do NOT dislike sex, usually it is whom the sex partner is.
2017-03-11 21:41:12 UTC
that 'undo switch' is how you get to remember a thing twice... well, if we can do that, it's only a matter of time before we men get to take a pill that makes us gay... i have a feeling that this shall become a hugely popular pill... i know i'd run out and buy some... think about it... as a dude, you want sugar a lot... well, if you looked at other dudes and your brain said "oh yeah!" if you believe it's not then you need to be put in your place... women are not as highly sugared as men in general either...
babulal
2017-03-02 10:37:30 UTC
Sex So Much
Tamera
2016-09-26 07:22:18 UTC
Why do guys like sex
2016-09-27 00:58:50 UTC
Yeah
?
2016-09-27 20:57:26 UTC
I think like a man then. I'm currently not getting any and it's driving me crazy!
Ozzie Klunk
2016-09-27 00:21:01 UTC
Women have always known that for most men, most of the time, coitus is simply another way to masturbate. That's why.
?
2016-09-27 10:30:54 UTC
Because men are dogs and women aren't! Well most aren't!
Creature of the Sun
2016-09-28 22:21:17 UTC
Not the case for me. I want more sex and my bf not so much. It's very unfortunate.
♥️🦌
2016-09-29 02:10:21 UTC
Most men are gross and not good at it, and only want sex to pleasure themselves and don't even know how to please a woman. Women would rather do it themselves ahah
GEEGEE
2016-09-27 11:11:50 UTC
Women take longer to get aroused. Different biology. Women may be "off" certain types of horny men, who are doing all this begging.
Mike S
2016-09-30 11:19:12 UTC
I haven't run into any of these women, so maybe it's mostly you you need to work on.
?
2016-09-27 07:29:19 UTC
Most men dont know what they r doing when it comes to sex. Thats why
?
2016-09-27 10:21:01 UTC
I believe you have it wrong there.. approach to the sexual activity is very important to a woman. Let me summarize it this way.. A longer period spent on foreplay will help you achieve what you want at the end of the day..
?
2016-09-27 07:10:57 UTC
All women are prostitutes. they won't give it up if they don't feel they're

getting their money's worth. do women buy men lunch or dinner ?
Maria
2016-09-27 15:31:03 UTC
They don't dislike sex, just pretend....

They are humans too, just like you :)
Billy
2016-09-27 13:38:46 UTC
I don't think they dislike it but they like it their way , they don't like to be forced to participate in it .
?
2016-09-29 14:27:12 UTC
Because of sex offenders or maybe they don't feel comfortable and feel the vibe or don't want to
2016-10-01 18:50:55 UTC
buy yourself a sex toy like a blow up doll then you don't have to agonize over a female just like how some girl not all of them buy a dildo to replace a dick OR you can just close your eye when dude or tranny "tickle" you :D
zocki
2016-09-28 16:20:57 UTC
I disagree, that they dislike sex.
?
2016-09-27 04:39:49 UTC
Coz of men and women genes are different thats why
?
2016-09-28 11:27:44 UTC
You're prolly gay if your chick doesn't like sex with you. My chick begs me and I have to say no. True story
Johnson
2016-09-27 02:56:45 UTC
About this question, Women could give actual answer.
ghjjj
2016-09-27 04:53:19 UTC
Bc men use women for sex, and another reason is when women like sex they are called "slut" "hoe" and etc.
Nitin
2016-09-27 23:38:25 UTC
Direct PHYSICAL SEX WITHOUT orgasm , turns the women down & thus the inference ."most women dislike sex so much" !! So cajole her a lot & she will like it !!
Wodralir
2016-09-26 09:24:07 UTC
Es very complicada tu pregunta, pero la mujer es diferente al hombre, la mujer no es solo sexo, es armonia es conquista, si eso no existe ella no sentira nada, el hombre es solo sexo.
Erica
2016-09-28 22:54:22 UTC
Maybe she prefers a woman?! It could be that she just needs to find the right man that is open to getting a little freaky with her.
Max
2016-09-27 04:34:38 UTC
How is it women's job to please men all the time? Smh, "there are many horny men not getting sex" they better whip out the gloves, turn on pornhub and start pumping. You know women arent here to **** men all the time, right?
Ian
2016-09-25 21:15:00 UTC
It's just you. Maybe you need to shower more and remember to take your socks off
The Football God
2016-09-26 16:47:31 UTC
I didn't read any other answers, so I'll ask, "Do you think it's a you issue"? Most everyone does.
Storyweaver
2016-09-27 17:36:12 UTC
It takes much longer for women to achieve orgasm. Some, maybe many, have never had one so they merely go along with it because it is expected an to please a man.
?
2016-09-27 22:15:14 UTC
this is wrong i have a higher sex drive then most men, they act like they dont like sex cuz they would be a "slut'
2016-09-25 19:09:50 UTC
Its a matter of testosterone. Testosterone is a hormone found in both males and females, yet found in higher concentration in men. Men who are NOT chemically altered by eugenics have higher test. the sex hormone, than women do, and are therefore more horny.
2016-09-27 13:43:16 UTC
Because not everyone wants to just have sex with everyone
2016-09-28 10:53:04 UTC
Vic xhvcchbvv
?
2016-09-26 06:44:49 UTC
Some women are bitter and selfish
Victor
2016-09-28 15:25:39 UTC
For me, it's no fault of women. I'm just too damn shy and I hate it.
Autumn
2016-09-27 00:58:54 UTC
That's a good question, I always wondered this myself.
WORK4SUCCESS
2016-09-28 06:07:53 UTC
Most women love it, we just have to be with the right partner who makes us feel comfortable and with who we feel comfortable.
mk
2016-09-25 23:00:12 UTC
There are way too many men that do not know how to satisfy a woman
2016-09-26 07:24:28 UTC
I feel like it's something to do with the fact that women have babies.

Also women want to feel like they're appreciated for something more than their bodies.
Mark
2016-09-26 22:06:59 UTC
I don't know. But as long as they don't date or marry hetero men it's fine by me.
2016-09-28 11:57:24 UTC
im sorry to tell you this but --- YOU MIGHT BE THE PROBLEM.....



my bf and i have been dating ( not living together) for 6 years.... each time anniversary comes , monthsary comes.... i make up an excuse..... there are times i just say no......and i felt bad. so i end up pretending



learn how to set the mood ... make your girl want you.... dont just jump into it... women are like CLOTHING IRONS ... we take time to heat up...
dear
2016-09-27 04:55:52 UTC
Dear,

Thanks,am also fine like you for remind (all are taking way in accord situation)
?
2016-09-26 19:32:38 UTC
They don't have a drive
noone
2016-09-27 15:16:39 UTC
I would assume that the men that are getting rejected probably do not know how the please her! Would you want to go to a restaurant when you're hungry just to watch other people eat? Nope!
2016-09-25 19:29:13 UTC
risk of pregnancy



and



most casual partners are crap in bed - of either sex



i don't dislike sex - but i do dislike boring sex with a dumbasss
?
2016-09-27 07:25:55 UTC
They do like it. They just don't discuss it with people.
2016-09-27 16:40:54 UTC
Someone has to keep the prostitutes in business. Otherwise, they could not buy hair extensions and gel nails.
2016-09-27 11:21:36 UTC
don't get charge for rape. gees they just don't like. start masturbating. its similar, the same. some men would rather masturbate than have sex with their wifes
pizza192002
2016-09-27 19:00:15 UTC
Because a woman has one head
shay
2016-09-26 19:04:33 UTC
sex is boring. heroin is better. its not females' fault that so many men are desperate, horny sluts. i mean jesus christ gain some self control and get a hobby
?
2016-09-28 08:10:13 UTC
Most likely because their men didn't satisfy them well.
kalbs
2016-09-28 22:33:47 UTC
They love sex, if our asking this question I think the problem is with you.
da realist
2016-09-27 11:35:38 UTC
because most american women are white and they wont get the food stamps and welfare like black women do,

when they have kids out of wedlock
?
2016-09-28 12:23:47 UTC
Really Who cares if they enjoys sex or not. That is not the point is it.
Rosemary B
2016-10-02 12:31:04 UTC
This is not true, maybe it's the women you meet.
Shourya
2016-09-28 13:30:02 UTC
It's because of our history, and it will change
NONAME
2016-09-27 07:39:27 UTC
Women need to build "love" first.
Mark greg Lagarto
2016-09-27 06:25:17 UTC
Hahaha somebody drill this guy a hole in his deck and let's see how he likes to get penetrated.....
Rsantana
2016-09-28 11:22:54 UTC
Thats a funny question
Dfghj
2016-09-27 07:01:39 UTC
Nbn
Kylieee
2016-09-28 14:35:57 UTC
Nuh
thegreatone
2016-09-27 08:39:47 UTC
Because it's perverse and disgusting.
oxygenO
2016-09-27 20:20:03 UTC
Cause most men are too pushy and demanding and not loving enough.
tishyyy
2016-09-26 13:16:10 UTC
Maybe they've had negative experiences
Walter
2016-09-26 19:51:21 UTC
wheni u see a woman that dont like sex she is no good for her self or to no one else why deal with them tell them to become num
john
2016-09-28 21:03:24 UTC
They don't. You just nut quickly
?
2016-09-27 09:48:55 UTC
The way they are raised. It's for procreation.
?
2016-09-28 15:36:30 UTC
I'll call you a waaaahmbulance.
?
2016-09-27 05:02:40 UTC
those arent women, those are alien feminists. Watch out for them.
ashley
2016-09-27 23:03:00 UTC
They don't
2016-09-27 05:39:54 UTC
I have multiple orgasms during intercourse. It is because my guy cares about my pleasure and always has. If you give a woman pleasure and orgasms, she will comeback to you again and again. Maybe you need to learn ejaculatory control and techniques to please her better. Romance her and keep yourself attractive.
molly
2016-09-27 22:03:22 UTC
Uh maybe some but most do
Anna D
2016-09-26 10:53:16 UTC
Apparently you're doing it wrong.
?
2016-09-27 15:27:17 UTC
because stds exist and maybe the man asking is ugly. My friend who is better looking than me doesnt have that problem
2016-09-30 15:43:45 UTC
Many of them are like Hillary. They hate men
2016-09-27 02:10:10 UTC
LOL... It's *you* they don't like. Ugly? Or just the sour attitude you show here....
Diane
2016-09-28 09:43:50 UTC
we dont like sex as much as men and i dont know why
sugarbee
2016-09-26 14:37:37 UTC
Have you considered that it might be the man that she dislikes.
A1
2016-09-26 23:51:15 UTC
I don't know "most women"
2016-09-28 16:35:44 UTC
BECAUSE SHE MIGHT GET PREGNANT!! OR CATCH AN STD! THINK ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES FIRST, STUPID! YOUR'E SO WILLING TO DO IT BUT WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO WHEN SHE GETS KNOCKED UP?! SEX= BABIES!/ STD!
2016-09-27 04:33:24 UTC
Your going with the wrong women !
2016-09-30 15:32:47 UTC
Depends how much they like the specific man.
?
2016-09-26 20:00:54 UTC
A woman has to have sex with a man. We get to have sex with a woman!!!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iGsm-OV-f0
Alex
2016-09-27 02:02:00 UTC
They re called hookers. They re not giving it away for free. They exist but they take advantage of it.
?
2016-09-27 14:19:15 UTC
You just seem to keep striking out
2016-09-27 02:48:24 UTC
They don't!
?
2016-09-27 09:31:57 UTC
I don't think that's true
2016-09-28 06:02:42 UTC
idiot, It is because they do not like you.

stupid men say women like to close their eyes in sex.



idiot, when I was young, women also open their eyes when we fck.
WyrDachsie
2016-09-29 12:08:03 UTC
They don't. Maybe your just lousy at it.
Sunnysideup
2016-09-28 14:21:48 UTC
Supply and demand. Can afford to be more selective.
miffy
2016-09-29 14:02:39 UTC
eet eez because zey have not 'ad zee experience of zee lovings wiz moi !!!!
Fred
2016-09-28 05:08:38 UTC
Because most women want me, not you. ;)
Girrrrl Luvaaaa
2016-09-26 19:31:35 UTC
It's the motion of the ocean
?
2016-09-27 20:23:28 UTC
We don't
Violet
2016-09-27 01:01:58 UTC
Lol I enjoy it very much so
Tesla
2016-09-25 19:09:38 UTC
Women are complicated. You just gotta find a partner, or get a hooker or some ****
?
2016-09-28 12:54:28 UTC
who knows? women change their mind
2016-09-26 09:38:59 UTC
Too many horny men who want to rush things.
Randsterone
2016-09-26 16:40:09 UTC
Thats american women and I have nothing to do with any of them!
?
2016-09-27 07:22:00 UTC
Because y'all dick game weak
Zephir
2016-09-28 03:30:52 UTC
strange, only 1% of earth population is a-sexual
2016-09-26 17:15:37 UTC
Because they're lesbians.
?
2016-09-28 02:11:54 UTC
Because sometimes it is good for health
Bisexual Aromantic
2016-09-27 22:58:46 UTC
Nice sexism there, dude
TQOP
2016-09-27 19:27:35 UTC
women in general are all different.
?
2016-09-30 05:45:47 UTC
Faust it hurt
?
2016-09-28 22:38:28 UTC
that is the reason way of sex position
M.
2016-09-27 13:29:23 UTC
The reproductive system of the woman is very different from the man.
?
2016-09-27 08:11:07 UTC
Don't kid yourself. They start out saying "don't, stop" and end up moaning "don't stop"
?
2016-09-27 18:23:41 UTC
BECAUSE MOST MEN *** TO FAST AND DO NOT TAKE CARE OF THE WOMEN
redi
2016-09-28 10:50:18 UTC
women are human, men are human.
betty m
2016-09-27 07:35:19 UTC
Man and woman are Different and we are made different.
2016-09-28 12:32:02 UTC
i dont think its dislike i think its about excitement
erac herus
2016-09-27 00:17:37 UTC
i'd die to get ****** by a guy ;-;

i swear...

By the way I'm a girl.
2016-09-28 18:08:24 UTC
women are not wired like us
?
2016-09-29 10:29:22 UTC
It's like rape
2016-09-25 19:06:12 UTC
Maybe if you offered them some decent electronics, you would get some sexual interest.

Worth a try.
2016-09-28 13:16:17 UTC
that is why i like transgendered women
2016-09-27 05:04:49 UTC
Not necessary
Element
2016-09-28 15:20:14 UTC
Thank god I live in florida horny sloots everywhere
Legend81
2016-09-28 12:53:23 UTC
Because your ugly
2016-09-27 15:21:23 UTC
I personally get grossed out by semen sometimes...
?
2016-09-27 20:40:51 UTC
IF IT WAS ANY GOOD, SHE'D WANT IT.
Joe
2016-09-29 16:33:23 UTC
Your mom liked it last night.
Harsh
2016-09-27 21:29:14 UTC
Ewww... You sound sexist. Us men are not whores...
Snoop
2016-09-29 03:07:22 UTC
You ugly
Manyowls
2016-09-28 17:30:25 UTC
it has to do with emotional and mental awareness and maturity
AL
2016-09-27 01:36:18 UTC
Women are dumb
Dreamgoer
2016-09-25 19:05:01 UTC
Because men are wack every female is secretly lesbian. It's better lol.
wysakre
2016-09-27 14:39:24 UTC
it is a well known hormone issue.
?
2016-09-30 21:06:46 UTC
Cuz everyone is different
?
2016-09-26 08:13:01 UTC
because you are doing it all wrong...It is not your pleasure it is about hers and you are not getting the job dunn
notned
2016-09-28 12:55:15 UTC
This is why men turn gay
?
2016-09-26 22:27:17 UTC
Not true
2016-09-29 11:19:14 UTC
maybe you simply need to shower more
2016-09-28 10:42:12 UTC
they're not as horny as men
2016-09-27 14:39:10 UTC
Because men are *******
alyssap7979
2016-09-28 16:23:35 UTC
they don't
Tarek
2016-09-28 17:09:28 UTC
AIDS. Anybody could have it.
?
2016-09-26 03:33:12 UTC
sorry you feel that way ,I have not found that to be true
2016-09-26 18:40:54 UTC
bnfgnfg
Green
2016-09-27 14:18:44 UTC
Because men are stupid.
2016-09-27 19:35:07 UTC
What!
2016-09-29 10:03:16 UTC
you must not be very good looking
md.nazmuzzaman
2016-09-27 12:50:06 UTC
vry good
?
2016-09-26 16:53:57 UTC
they don't?
2016-09-28 18:33:27 UTC
i know right
holly
2016-09-27 20:05:20 UTC
No
2016-09-26 14:02:43 UTC
Girls love it!
Josh
2016-09-27 21:55:24 UTC
because
Geri
2016-09-26 22:58:13 UTC
They just don,t :(
2016-09-26 17:26:13 UTC
umm this is innacurate as ****... are you okay?
Roland Chambers
2016-10-01 00:03:31 UTC
you are mistaken
pyt
2016-09-29 12:38:18 UTC
not true
md
2016-09-30 20:44:54 UTC
because they are many many sexy......thank you.........
2016-11-14 17:21:30 UTC
Why do most women dislike sex so much? Roman Catholic sign of the cross is upside down, done with five fingers instead of three, is done from left to right instead of right to left, etc. (basically inviting demons). Antichrist's Third Temple will have 8 chambers: a chamber per main religion; antichrist will be crowned in this temple; during crowning, he won't read the "belief prayer" correctly (rejecting Christ and acknowledging himself); when he will take his gloves off to make sign of the cross incorrectly (just for show), many people will see his big nails and will reject him; Patriarch (who will be crowning him) will say that this is the antichrist; antichrist will kill him. Also, antichrist will kill those priests who disagree with him at the 8th "wolf" Council; others will worship him when a bird dies at his feet. Roman Catholics, Satanists, and Buddhists use the same mudras; if you see these mudras on an icon, then it's not Orthodox icon; Orthodox icon has IC XC symbol (Jesus Christ). Roman Catholics pay drunks and prostitutes to pose for icons; passions of drunks and prostitutes transfer to those who pray to these images. Normal Orthodox icons are inspired by the Holy Spirit. Gaad in Ruski = Satan; hence, Americans = blasphemers because they always say: "Oh, my god!". Santa (word for Saint in Satanic languages) = Satan; hence, Spanish + Italian + Portuguese = blasphemers. Anathema to Satanic languages; triple anathema. Learn Church Slavonic; no curses in it; curses = prayer to Satan. All religions except Orthodoxy worship Satan. On bread for communion: IC XC NIKA (Jesus Christ Conquers) plus cross = Orthodox; hexagram plus Dusha Maya = antichrist. Jews and Muslims pray head down (either standing, bowing, or kneeling); this is Satanic prayer. Orthodox look into the eyes of icon; energy goes their way; they get healed; head and shoulders come together to reject Satan slowly and then fast to normal showing allegiance to Christ and not the devil. Hands cannot be on groin or behind back; either put them crossing each other on chest (right over left) or just by your sides. Legs together so that a demon doesn't run underneath your legs. Clergy who will not "put Buddhist icons and serve antichrist's blood" will be killed; only 7 churches will be left as Pelageya of Ryazan predicted. In 2006 and at other meetings, fake patriarchs and bishops signed a bunch of documents betraying Orthodoxy by saying that all religions worship the same Supreme Being; triple anathema; don't let heretics tell you what to do. America will be last country to switch to Euro. Three big earthquakes will shake the three superpowers; 1st big earthquake in Russia; 2nd (bigger one) in China; 3rd (biggest of the three) will be in America. NATO will nuke Ukraine to blame Russia for it; then NATO will nuke Russia from Scandinavia. China will attack Russia; but will not get past Ural Mountains; bio-genetic weapon will be used against Chinese soldiers (they will run back to China and hide in closets in fear) and weather weapon will freeze Siberia to - 200 Celcius; stadium-size chunks of unmeltable ice will fall from the lower sky (because when rockets go into higher sky they bring this ice down to lower sky). Russia will destroy Turkey and America. China will have a hole across the whole country to the abyss (because of another super weapon used to stop Chinese aggression); radiation from this hole will be massive; Chinese will try to keep quiet about it; a lot of people will fall into this hole.

Scientists don't see dinosaurs because of radiation. Only Eurasia and Alaska (both without coasts) will remain after demons blow up Antarctica (which surrounds the flat earth) and Greenland melts. Move to Ural Mountains or inland Alaska. Sionists wanted war between Russia and Germany from June 11th to October 11th on their holidays because (666 times 3)+(6 times 3) = 2016 (in their twisted logic).

Tube people = demons. Clones = demons. Human costumes that demons wear = demons. Dinosaurs and 666ed people have triple stranded DNA; normal person can't swallow 666ed food (designed for 666ed people). Demons live inside clones. Bacteriologist Alexandre Yersin (who discovered Bubonic plague) is depicted on the Shroud of Turin. There is another shroud (Shroud of Milan) on which blasphemer Yosef (who was crucified on a pole in 1066 AD) is depicted. Menachem Mendel Schneerson, Lenin (el=deity in Hebrew, nine = no in German; so, when chanted repeatedly is blasphemy against the Creator), and Yosef were possessed by Azazel; now, Rico Cortes is possessed by Azazel.

WW3 happens; 7% of people will be left; after people are tired of war, they will elect the antichrist as one world leader; don't vote. ISIS stands for Israeli Secret Intelligence Service. Next false flag: Statue of Liberty in order to attack Iran; one big shake, one giant step forward, one giant collapse. Move away from coasts as nukes will go off in the ocean (at where tectonic plates meet; result: megatsunamis 1km high).

Wear natural clothing so that if a bomb goes off it won't stick to the body as fast as synthetic clothes. All metal will be burned for fuel; so, save knives, crowbars, shovels, wood-burning stoves, etc. Also, save cloth/fabric/textile to cover the wounds and diseases.

Eat natural food because nanochips, cells of aborted fetuses, bug DNA, and other poisons are in food that is commonly sold; reject vaccines, medical care, medicine, etc. because nanochips are administered thru IVs, implants, fillings, etc. If 1000-1500 nanochips are in your right hand, then you can't make proper Orthodox sign of the cross with the right hand; last mercy for you then will be to cut the hand off.

Seraphim of Sarov and Sergiy of Radonezh will be resurrected after WW3 for a short time; Seraphim of Sarov will show the new Ruski Tsar who will fight the antichrist for about 2 years and 8 months. Those who go see Seraphim of Sarov will be healed of their infirmities/illnesses/sicknesses/ diseases; if you want to see him then, hurry because he won't stay longer than a few weeks.

Earth is flat; stands on 3 pillars (the Most Holy Trinity); pillars stand on water at zero Kelvin. Zodiac is planetary prison of demons; don't believe in horoscopes or you'll exhibit the traits of the trapped demons. Most thoughts and dreams are from demons; demons never do good. Sleep fully clothed; pray the Jesus prayer. Pray to your guardian angel to have normal sleep.

Humans were created about 7525 years ago. Ruski Orthodox Christian Vyacheslav Krasheninnikov was the last prophet before Enoch and Elijah return to preach against the antichrist.

Birds participate in time creation. It's a sin to kill birds. Dinosaurs live under our level. They will get out through sinkholes and lakes. To kill them, go for their nerves. Save the birds; but kill the dinosaurs. First dinosaur will come out of Volga River in Russia.

Demons grow human skin (from a sample taken during abduction) and put it on so as to look like us. Demons will invite people to be healed inside their UFOs; those who go will be like zombies after. Gov't provides demons with diamonds and allows demons to abduct people. If you're being abducted, slowly pray the Jesus prayer.



Don't panic. Demons use diamonds and souls to power their UFO craft. The bigger the diamond, the more it lasts. Demons have 4 UFO bases: 1)Moon 2)Inside fake mountain Kailash in Tibet 3)In lake Baikal in Russia 4)In Atlantis which is underneath the Mariana Trench in Pacific Ocean. There are no aliens. Nobody lives on other planets.

Airplanes that go down are hit by demons because they need the airspace to fight Jesus. Antichrist is pale with red eyes. He's possessed by Satan since he's 12 years old. He flies very fast; deceived people will say that "Christ is here; Christ is there". Sometimes, he wears blue robe over left shoulder while red robe is underneath. He wears gloves to hide long nails. He's surrounded by demons who appear as angels of light. Antichrist will trick people to believe that he can do mountain moving and resurrection (using holograms); fire from the sky is easy (considering the gases from pollution in the atmosphere).

Don't go into a UFO to be healed by demons. Green 666 is given by isotope rays on wrist or forehead when people stretch hands to receive small plastic grey card with no name on it (World Passport). Police will microchip and isotope ray people on the highways. Microchipped people will be influenced by computers to take grey plastic card; but when they do, 666 is given. Food stores will isotope ray people too. Antichrist will also release prisoners to mark people. Reject 666 at all cost because it leads to permanent hell.

If you're about to be marked, pray the Jesus prayer. Hide with Orthodox Christians to escape 666; leave all electronics behind so that antichrist's minions can't track you. Give to charity in the name of Archangel Michael; he rescues people from temporary hell twice a year (or brings them up a level, that is, to a level with less punishment; eventually, people are freed). Feed the pigeons; when pigeons bow down, people are saved from temporary hell. Forgive me.



https://youtube.com/watch?v=8dub8PF2d8E

http://fatheralexander.org/graphics/sects_e.pdf

http://cs629216.vk.me/v629216013/6f4c/Qji_GVZorQY.jpg

http://ic.pics.livejournal.com/m_e_l_n_i_k_o_v/30839524/10997/10997_original.jpg

https://vk.com/wall-25720730?q=рязанская&w=wall-25720730_57029%2Fall



https://youtube.com/watch?v=0LUKFmZfOrs

http://vk.com/otrok_slava?w=wall-31832035_103469%2Fall

http://orthodoxinfo.com/praxis/guidech3.pdf

http://fatheralexander.org/booklets/english/life_after_death.htm

http://pravoslavie.ru/english/55141.htm


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