especially female sadists... do you believe they're cruel monsters?
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2015-06-15 17:09:11 UTC
To which their own. The BDSM community, like the actual BDSM community not **** like 50 shades of grey practice safe and consensual BDSM so each partner is respect and not at all unwillingly injured in the end. Everyone has their own pleasures, kinks, and fetishes and if inflicting pain on others for sexual pleasure is their thing, so be it. There's a reason there's an opposite-masochism, those who probably prefer a sadist on their side so they know each partner is gaining an equal amount of pleasure and stimulation.
Mole
2015-06-16 12:13:40 UTC
well I am a female sadist and I think I'm a fun person to be around. it's just a sexual preference after all and kinky people tend to seek out other kinky people so I wouldn't worry about sadists pushing their interests on you
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2015-06-15 15:29:39 UTC
Some of them are cruel... like the serial killers, and the sexually sadistic ones are usually the worst of the worst. But if they're not hurting anyone with it, I don't see a problem.
2015-06-15 17:32:00 UTC
females express their sadistic tendencies towards males far more in terms of finances and the court system, rather than the bedroom. most females become sadists when they divorce their husbands, cleaning out his finances, denying him access to his children and brainwashing his children to despise him.
Possum
2015-06-15 15:10:30 UTC
If there is a person who wants to be abused by a sadist (a masochist), then no, they are not cruel monsters.
2015-06-15 15:40:05 UTC
No. They are just really friendly. Once you mix bad things in there like b&d, you got a problem.
2015-06-15 15:10:22 UTC
They're strange
2015-06-15 15:59:22 UTC
If their manifestation of it is safe, sane and consensual, I have no issue with it. We all have our kinks and fantasies, after all.
2015-06-15 15:24:26 UTC
it's all disgusting and gross to me
But if others like, whatever
2015-06-15 18:26:06 UTC
Idk really if the other person is into and no real harm is being done then knock yourself out.
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