Question:
Do working class people ever frustrate you?
2009-09-05 08:06:40 UTC
I came from working class origins myself and while many can't send their kids to a university, feed them healthy food, or get needed insurance, they always seem to have money for alcohol, cigarettes, lottery tickets and cable TV.

They just seem to have a whole 'We'll figure it out when we come to it"/"If people waited until they could afford to have kids they wouldn't have them" mentality.

Do they not realise that their just duplicating a sub-par life for their children? Do they not care?
Ten answers:
homeatlast04
2009-09-05 08:29:50 UTC
What you described as working class sounds more to me like the welfare class. I work for a man who owns a lot of rental properties and receives section 8 for some of them and this describes a majority of them very well.



They have money for smokes, booze, drugs, twinkies, cable tv(on their 48 in plasma tv) but stay can't keep up with their bills (even with section 8 assistance, several fall behind on their rent).



Even if I don't know much about the families before they leave a property, I can usually tell who did or did not get government assistance by the condition they leave the property. Welfarers usually leave behind a lot of their possessions and will leave the property a complete mess. Those who are using their own money tend to take care of the property.



So, It's not the working class that get on my nerves. It's the classless non working.
Archer girl
2009-09-05 08:26:37 UTC
Most people are working class, or what I like to call middle class. You seem to be talking about lower middle class or upper lower class folks. My dad was a welder, and my mom is an LPN, and we always had good food, insurance, and every kid in my family at least got to go to junior college or at least vocational school. Dad had a couple of beers every day after work and they both smoked for a while. I agree that it's wrong to deny children good food, insurance, and an education or training in place of things that aren't necessities. I know someone who's father was a real slacker and spent all his time at the dog track. He was lucky if he had anything at all to eat. Yeah, his dad was disgusting. And his mom was deaf and blind, so she couldn't help out. He despises thin women because they make him think of starvation, that's how I got lucky with him. He was my bf for a couple of years. And the pattern didn't repeat with him. He's a realtor and he's married with a little boy and a nice home and a good life.
2009-09-05 22:53:29 UTC
Yeah, they piss me off, too. I hate it every year at back-to-school time when they have school supply drives for "underprivileged" kids. Come on, you can buy school supplies at WalMart for next to nothing! You can bet the parents can find plenty of money for booze and cigarettes and lottery tickets. Why can't they find $10.00 to buy some basic school supplies?



But as others have mentioned, it's not so much the working poor who are like this. It's the freeloaders on welfare who act like this. The working poor appreciate what they've got because they had to work their asses off to get it. It wasn't just handed to them because they were too lazy to use birth control.
Deity of Peace
2009-09-05 09:53:28 UTC
For starers, neither one of us here have the right to tell anyone when they should or shouldn't have a child. The right to reproduction is one of the things that sets us apart from countries like China. So no one has to follow YOUR game plan for life based on when you think is the best time to start a family much less do anything else.



Second, I've seen people live in big mansions, drive 100 thousand dollar cars, making 150K annually and they still live paycheck to paycheck (yes, believe it or not, it happens). These are people who live above their means. They purchase the big fancy, flashy objects and don't take into consideration how tight their budges are come the first of the month. Some of these people are some of the folks who where standing in the unemployment line when the decline of the economy hit rock bottom; and they're now 'working class' because they lost money in the stock market, they lost their jobs and homes. So that fancy life style went out the window. And some of them had kids! Some of those people still live pay check to pay check because they either have money tided up in bad investments or they spend carelessly based on the fact that they have money to spend. So when it comes time to pay the bills and mortgage, their budgets are just as tight as those working class people you've about.



And to be honest, the majority of us here are working class citizens. The definition of working class if citizens in any society is any individual that works for wages. I understand that its commonly referred to as individuals that work for lower wadges, but if your current employment pays you a set salary then YOU my friend are working class. Unless you own a successful business and have people working for you (to generate your income) you're working class.



Your family was working class; and you where allowed the chance to be born and make a way for yourself in life, my family was working class and I'm doing just fine. So just because ones parents may have been 'unskilled' or worked for minimum wadge it doesn't mean that he/she will lead the same life. Some kids who're born to working class parents end up becoming so successful in life that their parents never have to work again (I've seen this first hand).



Edit: Just a little side note, almost every consumer here in the United States spends money on things they don't really need (i.e. alcohol, cigarettes, lottery tickets and cable T.V.) everything from big gas guzzling SUV's, to plastic Cosmetics surgery. There are pet owners who'll shove out $600 dollars to have their dog or cat's fur painted into a specific pattern (WTF). I see people of all classes buying these things that they really could do with out. Regardless of how much money they clear annually after taxes. To be honest, no one can really afford to (or should) waste their money on any of these goods, but we do it anyway.
Winter Glory
2009-09-05 08:40:01 UTC
Funny...When we first had kids we were working class and barely scraped by.

We don't drink, we don't smoke and the lottery is not allowed in Utah.

And fyi...we did "figure it out when we came to it"

That's life for ya.



I have a friend who waited until they were "financially ready" for children.

Guess what? Her husband got laid off and now they're the ones barely scraping by.

Just sayin'..there's no guarantees in life.
baerlocher
2016-10-04 15:28:24 UTC
i'm from an rather working classification family individuals. My dad is a bin guy and my mum is a dinner woman. we live in somewhat a foul area. the two certainly one of them are human beings who smoke. we've cable, a motor vehicle and 3 desktops yet in 2 weeks i'm going to be shifting to circulate to uni. My mothers and dads have pushed the linked fee of education onto me extra beneficial than something and that they could continually locate the thank you to help me and my 3 sisters. in the event that they had to offer up some thing- they could. in the event that they had to get a 2nd activity- they could. i'm very appreciative of what my mothers and dads have controlled to furnish for me and my sisters on an rather low earnings. My mum had her first youngster at 17, yet from there she's controlled to construct up a stable environment for us. becoming up, we did no longer have lots yet I on no account felt as though I neglected out on something. My mothers and dads have been nonetheless stable mothers and dads and why? with the aid of fact they had time for us. funds isn't each and every little thing. A be sure who loves their toddler and helps them is worth of having young ones. i've got had chum who've been given each and every little thing they ever needed, yet their mothers and dads did no longer safeguard them in my opinion. i understand i could plenty have rather had barbie dolls that my dad discovered contained in the skips at artwork yet nonetheless have the super relationship I had with my family individuals. definite, there are undesirable cycles which you will actual get caught into, yet becoming up in a decrease classification existence isn't completely hopeless.
Jessica
2009-09-05 08:19:05 UTC
some people work to live,and some live to work.me i am working to exist.i care and i look forward to better opportunities.i cant afford,alcohol,cigarettes,and cable tv.im doing good to have internet at the moment.
Helen Bak
2009-09-05 08:26:19 UTC
These are not working class people this are general losers who would be living "sub-par" lives even if they were millionaires.
Rio Madeira
2009-09-05 09:52:00 UTC
Working-class people who actually work, and put their pay to good use, don't frustrate me. Alcoholics, smokers, gamblers, and overspenders do.
Marlbobama
2009-09-05 08:27:16 UTC
What irritates me is when people on public assistance have kids. Why should we, as tax payers, have to pay for them to have more kids?


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