why do women fake orgasms?

Question

most women fake orgasms which is illogical considering the fact if they are not enjoying sex it makes no sense to pretend.i think it is easier to tell men what they can do in order to help them (women)achieve real orgasms.

Answer 1

because they want you to think you're doing good n build you're confidence but if they start giving you pointers that's gonna make u feel like you're not doing good enough n piss u off! you will know when she is having an orgasm she will be tearing your back up n biting n screaming climbing the wall or biting the billow you just gotta experiment aim the dick up aim it down and hit the sides u just gotta know where to hit it to drive them crazy its easier to find the right spot with you're fingers when you go up bend them around the bone move you're fingers simultaneously then stop then go n go deep look for the g-spot n twirl you're finger on it n go behind it n push on it then turn ur hand around n n pull back move 2 fingers simultaneously with pressure then on each side facing the legs there are spots that feel like guitar strings if you pluck them they go crazy try plucking them simultaneously and playing with the clit at the same time they will be trying everything to stop you but don't let them slide up and down the strings then start fingering fast n they will go up the wall n when your done with that they are so sensitive they wont be faking any more orgasms it just takes girls longer to have one than the guy that's y 4-play is so important don't 4get that

Answer 2

Whaaah? Any man out there who thinks it's easy for a woman to fake an orgasm has never really given a woman a real orgasm! It ain't just about the juices boys, or the moaning, or the so called satisfied smile!

Any woman who is actually enjoying sex will be showing you exactly what you should be doing if you're missing the spot and she would expect you to be doing the same right back at her! Great sex is all about communication, it's just not all about words. Listen with your body and she will never fake on you again!

Answer 3

Only about one in five women are able to acheive orgasm from intercourse alone. Most need clitoral stimulation and intercourse at the same time. I am one of those women. I have faked orgasm on several occasions, because I have found that every man is just sure he is going to be the one to bring me to orgasm through intercourse. I don't want them to fear it is something they are doing wrong nor do I want to ask them to try other things when they have been going at dilligently for two hours already. The older i get the more i realize that i am cheating myself out of an orgasm and end up frustrated and unsatisfied. So, I do things a little differenty nowadays. I tell them of the situation. I tell them what they can do to help me acheive orgasm and I make sure I am taken care of before they even stick their penis in.

Answer 4

A lot of women fake orgasms because sex can be boring and it's a good way to get the guy to finish. Simple as that.

Answer 5

Good question. It's very logical that they fake an orgasm, whether it's out of compassion or fear. It's common sense to know that if men could be taught to be great lovers, there would be a class in High School or College course.

Answer 6

That is true, but women and men get different biological responses out of sex. Women have multiple orgasms and may not put a large amount of importance on the one with their partner.

Answer 7

I suppose if you have faked it once it would be hard to explain to your partner without hurting his feelings that he doesn't do it for you, so you just keep faking it in the vain hope that things might improve. Yes, a most silly attitude but us women are as bad as you men at talking about sexual satisfaction. It is wrong not to talk together about both your sexual needs and should be discussed if a fufilled and loving partnership is to develop.

Answer 8

I don't do it all the time, but I do do it often, and it's mostly because a) I know my man really wants to please me, but b) I really don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him he just didn't last long enough when c) I already know he's overly aware that he has a "time" problem when I know that half the problem is simply that he's got a short fuse and I've got a really long one.



And sometimes just becuase the more I get into it, the more likely I am to actually HAVE said orgasm. So I'm trying to fake myself into it, too. lol

Answer 9

i find that men tend to sulk if they think they are not good enough in bed, and if you love the man you are sleeping with (which i did or i wouldn't be sleeping with them) then you want to make them feel good, and so you fake an orgasm so they dont feel bad. Although, if i didn't fake one, then they tried harder the next time around (generally about 20 minutes later), which was great!

Answer 10

All women don't fake orgasms. I have never faked an orgasm. Whats the point? If some loser can't satisfy you in bed just ditch him and get someone who can. And most men can they just don't wanna be bothered. The trick is to get yours first before he gets his.



Each to her/his own.

Answer 11

Because it makes the man feel more macho,he finishes and then she can get some sleep.

I agree,women should tell men,it would wipe the smug look off a lot of guys face if they told them they were crap instead of letting them think they are gods gift !lol

Answer 12

maybe they fake them so as not to hurt your feelings- but then what happens if she tells the man exactly what to do and still she doesnt have an orgasm? i think hed feel pretty shite - men always want it to lead to orgasm for them this isnt always the case with women

Answer 13

Because they don't want to embarass their men who can;t stand it beyond couple of minutes. They shouldn't fake and tell upfront, get their guys to excericises to improve the performance to ...may be 20 - 40 minutes.

Answer 14

they don't want to hurt a guys feelings?



we can enjoy all of it, not just the bit at the end



sadly 9 out of 10 males can't tell the difference

Answer 15

Because we can babe, and besides it makes you guys feel good when you think you've hit the spot! Especially when you have been at it for a while and it just aint happening for us its easier to pretend..... LOL

Answer 16

cos some women take too long to c*m and to make them c*m means dying of a heart attack. so they fake them to make us feel better. not many women c*m thru sex itself, they need stimulation on their cl*t as well.



I know my woman doesn't fake her's, cos she's a gusher.

Answer 17

You are 100% right. But sometimes it just isn't worth it to try to teach a man (who obviously has no clue) on how things work...much easier to fake it.

Answer 18

because if you told most men how they could improve things they would take it as an insult, so its easier to fake it

Answer 19

Because they cannot be honest with their man! Speak up women! It's good for your health.

Answer 20

Personally I couldn't give a crap. As long as I am enjoying myself, who cares?

Answer 21

most couples do not communicate worth a damn!! they are usually too afraid of hurting each others feelings or too uptight to talk about sex.

Answer 22

because many women don want to upset their boyfriends. a man that believes he cant sexually satisfy his girl would suffer a huge loss in confidence.....hence we do it 2 benefi both

Answer 23

because sometimes when your faking, it actually helps to get YOURSELF in the mood.(all that hollerins gotta be good for something.lol.) especially if your mans one of those "wham, bam, thank-you-mam" kinda guys.

Answer 24

Hey I agree with you! There are some women out there that wont leave things unsettled and will tell a man how to please them.

Answer 25

Don't date a chronic masturbator.

Answer 26

Who cares?

Answer 27

So they can get on with the washing up and ironing

Answer 28

Becoz the men they're with are crap shaggers!

Answer 29

my boyfriend has a tantrum if i tell him i didn't enjoy the sex

Answer 30

cos it gets you to your vinegar stroke quicker!

then they can get back to watching big brother!



(not speaking from personal experience like!)



honest?

Answer 31

to show the men that 'really up for it' and there used to it/love it.

Answer 32

They are bored and want you done

Answer 33

yh i agree

its gotta be oppressed women that do that

Answer 34

Maybe its your technique?



Or your equipment?

Answer 35

cause they want you too get done

Answer 36

Because they think we care????

Answer 37

yea, good point, but we do it cause we're BOREED

Answer 38

so they can go to sleep

Answer 39

Your lieing

they don't

Answer 40

YES

Answer 41

true

Answer 42

mine never do........................