Why are men in general more willing to have sex than women?

Question

Generally we find that if a man gets an opportunity to sleep with a woman he is willing to do so but a woman is usually hesitant or very choosy. She wouldn't jump to sleep immediately. (well there are exceptions) But in general don't you find that Men usually have an easy gong attitude & women seem to be thinking & analyzing in the matter of sex. I am not blaming anyone I am just curious to know.

What are your thoughts about it?

Answer 1

Men just like to get laid.

Answer 2

There are a number of reasons that can factor down to the individual woman, but looking at the big picture, it can be many things. Fear of diseases, and pregnancy are the big ones, but it's also a social matter. Women are held to a different standard then men, so when they are casual about having sex, they are seen as a ****. So there is fear of judgement in women because in being more "laid back" when it comes to sex, they are seen as lower socially and are often relentlessly picked on.

Answer 3

If contraception fails, a man will not have to choose between a large belly and sore chest (in 9 months) or an abortion. He seems to get away scot free either way. That's why.



Btw you're from India, aren't you aware of the whole "Log kya kehenge" (what will people say) and the "Shareef gharane ki ladkiyaan aisi harkat nahin kartin hai" (Girls from good homes do not indulge in this behaviour)bullshit we have to live with? In our country sexually progressive women are viewed as easy targets for horrendous crimes because of the "izzat" (honour) concept attached to women's virginity.

Answer 4

hard to explain for the man part, but i will do my best to answer honestly. we or i get lonely so much that i lower my standards from perfering beautiful regular skinny athletic women to any woman no matter what she looks like. i always wrap it up f.y.i. it's not a matter of being ****** in general, it's really a matter of it being so hard to find the right woman. i'm personally starting to think she doesn't exist. we all feel lonely for attention from time to time. i think men in general are more lonelier which leads them to just wanting sex because it reminds us of having someone even if it's for one night. the ideal of another kind of effection. i'm pretty sure if every man had somebody, they would not be so ****** all the time, and instead do as women do. atleast that's what i believe. i have also noticed when i am with someone, i don't crave the need for sex, it is just something to do on accasion to spread love and satisfy her our of passion of the relationship.

Answer 5

Some men are just less responsible than other men. Some guys act like don't know sex causes pregnancy and treat it like a pleasure game with no consequences. Women learn early on sex has consequences that can change their lives forever. About this women do mature faster than men because they have to. There's no slipping out on pregnancy like men do. For them it hits home.



And no men can't blame instincts. That's a cop out. Every man does exactly what he wants to do. Instincts don't control him.

Answer 6

Hey. . A man fucked 25 diffrent girls..awesome man..amazing dud..



a women who got fucked by 25 difrent men ..is a s.l.u.t or w.h.o.r.e



A women can get pregnant if the man dose not ware condoms. A man cannot get pregnant ..



a man with a kid who ran off can have another affair and **** another girl or even marry one.



A women who has a child..not likely to settle that easy or find another man.



A women will lose the tightness of her flower ..making her less good for other man.



a man will gain experience making him good for other women.



This was upto dating and sex games..



The marriage have it reversed..In marriage a man suffers and women dose not. .(when divorced a man will lose 50 of his assets for some reason and has to pay alimony ..even tough a women can work on her own and support her self..but she has to take money from the man..even tough women say they are equal to men..)



in a marriage..obvious a man will have high sex drive and the wife will make him work or beg for sex..and if he have sex else where he will be divorced losing his property and a life time contract of alimony.





so yeah..men are also scared of marriage..who is making them sacred..feminist..



so men date and have sex and leave women pregnant. .



who is to blame. .i don't care..i am just telling this...

Answer 7

Women generally have more to lose by making bad choices. Pregnancy, being tied to a bad man for 18 years if she gets pregnant, slvt shaming, having intimate details shared with drinking buddies. The very same guy who will beg a woman for sex, will reject her romantically the next day for being too easy. A woman is just wise to choose her partners carefully.

Answer 8

I think that men are more willing to have sexual intercourse with a woman because he doesn't have to worry about getting pregnant. Where as for a woman she has to wonder if the guy really loves her or if he just wants her to satisfy himself.

Answer 9

There are less consequences for men. Simple.



Women are more likely to catch Sexually Transmitted Diseases from sexual intercourse. Women have the risk of pregnancy. Women are likely to be ****-shamed for having intercourse whenever the opportunity arises, unlike men.



Sexual intercourse can also result in non-STD infections, including UTIs/bladder infections in women. They're awful, and I got them all the time from intercourse.

Answer 10

I think it's just instinct. Women can get pregnant and be stuck with a kid for 18 years. Men, all throughout human history, have gotten away with shagging random women and running off before any responsibility appeared. We're supposed to have a bunch of kids with different women to keep the species alive. Now that's not so socially acceptable but we still have the instincts left over I think.

Answer 11

Because guys can't get pregnant period. If they get a STD they know about it in short order, a girl can go for weeks with no symptons, spreading the wealth around.

Answer 12

men & Women, both go to bed the same way. there is no difference.

Answer 13

Pariah Kerry you have pretty much summed it up!

Answer 14

Grace is right. They can be very choosy.

Answer 15

because we don't get pregnant, so some men only care about the pleasure part, then dump women after they get pregnant, and hump another one, and so on.

Answer 16

its not like that. But mostly men get caught & woman don't get caught.